Whatever happened to the still beating heart of a virgin? No one has any standards anymore.

Giles ,'Lies My Parents Told Me'


Spike's Bitches 41: Thrown together to stand against the forces of darkness  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


WindSparrow - Jun 28, 2008 3:34:25 am PDT #5153 of 10001
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

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vw bug - Jun 28, 2008 4:01:54 am PDT #5154 of 10001
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Oh, goodness! meara and Erin were hy-sterical last night. Love that morning reading!

My thesis buddy is over. She spent the night. Poor thing is in the middle of a bad breakup. You know what sucks? Being in the fun, beginning part of a relationship when one of your best buddies is in the middle of a bad breakup.


WindSparrow - Jun 28, 2008 4:11:36 am PDT #5155 of 10001
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Poor vw-thesis-buddy. {{{{}}}} stocking vw up on hugs so she has plenty for her friend.


vw bug - Jun 28, 2008 4:20:15 am PDT #5156 of 10001
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Awww...thanks WS. I just feel so badly for her. They were looking at engagement rings a month ago. And he was so supportive through the end of the thesis and graduation and stuff. It's sad.


vw bug - Jun 28, 2008 4:23:32 am PDT #5157 of 10001
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Oops!


vw bug - Jun 28, 2008 4:26:33 am PDT #5158 of 10001
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Ginger - Jun 28, 2008 5:06:48 am PDT #5159 of 10001
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

Why can't books that go in an order like this be published in some way that makes the order clear?

If I were in charge of the world, this would be a law. Every book in a series would have to have all the books in the series listed, latest to earliest.


meara - Jun 28, 2008 5:30:11 am PDT #5160 of 10001

Being in the fun, beginning part of a relationship when one of your best buddies is in the middle of a bad breakup.

Oh no!! Looking at engagement rings, and then breaking up? That IS bad!! Poor thing. I mean, I suppose better that he was supportive then, and broke up with her NOW, as opposed to breaking up with her right before finals or something, but...yeesh.

That's also part of how I know my life may be heating up--my friend J just had his girlfriend dump him. Which is horrible and awful...but apparently there's a law that only one of us can be getting any at any given time, so he was like "hey. K dumped me. Apparently you may be having sex soon" Which is part of why I adore him. Poor puppy.

(Also, why am I awake at this hour on a saturday? Because i woke up at 5:30AM and considered getting up but that was too early. WTF, brain??)


Fay - Jun 28, 2008 5:46:23 am PDT #5161 of 10001
"Fuck Western ideologically-motivated gender identification!" Sulu gasped, and came.

And then she told me that for the past many months, basically she had thought I was hot, but that they had been assessing whether I might be crazy. Because many lesbians are crazy. And because I was new, both to the group and to town, they had no one to check if I was crazy. And I had become friends with everyone, so if I was crazy, and she got involved, there would be drama not just with her, but with the whole friend group.

...see, really, this, and the 'you should call me' - I kind of think that she doesn't remotely even a little bit deserve the hot sexin'. Because she is A KNOB. Seriously. Angelina Jolie is not hot enough to get away with this nonsense.

Oh no!! Looking at engagement rings, and then breaking up? That IS bad!! Poor thing. I mean, I suppose better that he was supportive then, and broke up with her NOW, as opposed to breaking up with her right before finals or something, but...yeesh.

Yeah. It's awful awful awful - but at least he had the balls to break up now, rather than be spineless and let things snowball. (WeeSisterJay's best friend's fiance let things snowball and didn't break up with her until THE HONEYMOON. The fucktard. And they're both Catholic, to add insult to injury.)


meara - Jun 28, 2008 5:54:46 am PDT #5162 of 10001

I kind of think that she doesn't remotely even a little bit deserve the hot sexin

Heh. Well, no, she probably doesn't. But damnit. *I* do!!

The stupid thing is, I'm suspect some of the things she was worried I might be crazy about? She could've freakin' ASKED me. I mean, some of the stuff is things you can ask someone and they're going to lie through their teeth, if that's what they want to do. But some of the stuff, I could've given a straight-up answer, from my history, of "yes, I've done this before. No, I don't have a problem with it." (fr ex. on teh poly thing. or on the not wanting to be her girlfriend thing, though that's more one of the things people would say one thing even though they might not actually mean it) and at least been a little bit of reassurance. But noooooooo, that would've been too sensible for someone who is INSANE. Clearly.

t edit: (Oh, and also? She's like, "I have this cellular telephone. You should call it, and ask me on a date". And I'm thinking "Sweetie. I don't want to DATE you. I have no interest in going on a DATE with you. You do not want to DATE me. I know this. We just want to fuck. Can we just freakin' go home together after dancing, already, and get this over with??") t /serious eye-rolling