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Spike's Bitches 41: Thrown together to stand against the forces of darkness  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


lisah - Jun 19, 2008 6:04:08 am PDT #4089 of 10001
Punishingly Intricate

I was going to post this:

Or maybe just "Am I invited? Or is this a blokes only thing?"

I sent a message to multiple people on a facebook message thread when I meant to just respond to one. It's not very obvious that you are replying all I don't think...and it was vaguely embarassing. I'd sent an invite to a show we're having this weekend to a bunch of people (including, for example, my young cousins) and my friend responded to that message asking how my trip west had been and whether I'd snagged me a man. Which I responded (to ALL but didn't realized until after I hit send!) that I had indeed! And posted links to my vacation pictures. Not something I wouldn't have told anyone on that list if they'd asked but still OOPS!


Burrell - Jun 19, 2008 6:04:33 am PDT #4090 of 10001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

You're overanalyzing, Fay. You can just post "Is this boyz only or can I come too?" Chances are they'd be happy to have you along. Hell, chances are fairly good it didn't occur to at least one of them you felt excluded.


billytea - Jun 19, 2008 6:09:04 am PDT #4091 of 10001
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

Fay, FWIW, I think that's an excellent reply. Maybe just go straight from "Sorry, I'm Rambling" to "Clearly, I am awesome." And I'm now envisaging Mr Ploppy instructing you in the necessary resonance for a deep, booming voice.


Jessica - Jun 19, 2008 6:10:08 am PDT #4092 of 10001
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

Coxsackie's going around NYC too - Dylan had it a few weeks ago. (And with modern air travel, it wouldn't surprise me to see it breaking out in more than one place around the country.)

It's usually not serious, but it is unbelievably contagious. We were instructed to give Tylenol for the fever and keep him out of daycare until the rash was gone.


lisah - Jun 19, 2008 6:12:53 am PDT #4093 of 10001
Punishingly Intricate

Coxsackie's going around NYC too - Dylan had it a few weeks ago.

And a friend's toddler here had it last month. I think it's usually pretty lowkey, if uncomfortable, for kids but can, like chicken pox, be pretty serious for adults(RARELY, though).


Fay - Jun 19, 2008 6:14:31 am PDT #4094 of 10001
"Fuck Western ideologically-motivated gender identification!" Sulu gasped, and came.

Cheers, billy!


flea - Jun 19, 2008 6:22:35 am PDT #4095 of 10001
information libertarian

I think Raq got Cocksackie when Mal did, and said it sucked.


Jessica - Jun 19, 2008 6:26:56 am PDT #4096 of 10001
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

IOToddlerN, Dylan has prematurely reached the Terrible Twos. He thinks it's absolutely hilarious to touch things he knows are off-limits. Like the DVD player. And the STOVE. He doesn't even necessarily want to do anything with them, but he'll walk over to the stove, throw me a shit-eating grin, and plant his hand right on the oven door. It's both adorable and infuriating, the little punk. Any advice on making him realize that "No, Dylan, dangerous!" is not a game?

(And now, of course, I have the song from The Fantasticks in my head on a permanent loop.)


Amy - Jun 19, 2008 6:30:43 am PDT #4097 of 10001
Because books.

Jessica, I would probably pick him and up and move him away from whatever it is, but silently (aside from a firm "No"). What he's looking for is a reaction from you, and the more you give him, the longer he'll play the game.

It's like kids having tantrums. A lot of them want the attention, even if it's negative, so one way to stop it is to put them somewhere safe, like their room, and then just ignore them until they're done. (With appropriate, "I'm sorry you're so mad. Maybe we can talk when you're done" noises, for older kids.)

Also, I'm pretty sure the Terrible Twos actually refers to the second year of life, which Dylan is just beginning. I know that confused me when Jake was a toddler, because I thought it would be the year between two and three.


sumi - Jun 19, 2008 6:33:42 am PDT #4098 of 10001
Art Crawl!!!

Jessica, I was told some disturbing news by a friend: the way your child acts as a two-year-old is a good indication of how they will be as teenagers.