My mother emailed me an article about how to move from friendship to relationship. Apparently this is her new theory about why I'm not dating. (Other theories are that I don't get out enough, that I'm not trying, that I'm too picky, that I need to lose weight, that I make myself seem too smart, and that I don't wax my eyebrows often enough.)
Giles, help! He's going to scold me!
Buffy ,'Never Leave Me'
Spike's Bitches 41: Thrown together to stand against the forces of darkness
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Hil R. - Jun 07, 2008 8:11:16 pm PDT #2485 of 10001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l
meara - Jun 07, 2008 8:13:35 pm PDT #2486 of 10001
an article about how to move from friendship to relationship
....this assumes that I would want to do that. Usually I'm friends with people who I do not want to date. IJS.
Not that I think much of your mother's other theories either.
Does J-Date do gay dating? My one friend was complaining that she wants to date a Jewish girl...
Hil R. - Jun 07, 2008 8:16:26 pm PDT #2487 of 10001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l
Does J-Date do gay dating? My one friend was complaining that she wants to date a Jewish girl...
Yep. Well, at least, when you sign up, there are "I am a [man/woman] seeking a [man/woman]" options to choose from, not just the assumption that, if you're a woman, then you're looking for a man, like some of the other sites have.
meara - Jun 07, 2008 8:22:58 pm PDT #2488 of 10001
Heh. Excellent. Maybe I will call her bluff and make her sign up. Hehehhhe.
Fay - Jun 07, 2008 9:08:34 pm PDT #2489 of 10001
"Fuck Western ideologically-motivated gender identification!" Sulu gasped, and came.
Victor, dude, step away from the 'phone!
Torque - Jun 07, 2008 9:21:56 pm PDT #2490 of 10001
Bad Wolf
She's across the country, its slightly amusing, and its via IM so I have a record of everything she said so I can enjoy it later.
Does that make me evil. I'm pretty sure I'm evil.
Steph L. - Jun 07, 2008 9:39:55 pm PDT #2491 of 10001
I look more rad than Lutheranism
I don't know whether to be scared or delighted at the image of crowbar wielding Fay.
I'm more disturbed by the image of Fay in jeans and sneakers.
Agreed. The image of Fay in jeans and sneakers is as utterly incongruent as is the image of Jilli in jeans and sneakers.
(Although I *still* say that one year for Halloween, Jilli should be a cheerleader. Not a gothy cheerleader, a bright bouncy school-colors cheerleader with pom-pons and everything. Yes, it's the most utterly cognitively dissonant image EVER, but that's the whole point of Halloween. It's Come As You Aren't night.)
SuziQ - Jun 07, 2008 9:41:51 pm PDT #2492 of 10001
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame
Not a gothy cheerleader, a bright bouncy school-colors cheerleader with pom-pons and everything.
I have a blond wig I could contribute to the costume.
meara - Jun 07, 2008 10:04:34 pm PDT #2493 of 10001
I'm more disturbed by the image of Fay in jeans and sneakers.
I have to think that Fay should do the murders in jeans and sneakers, and that way she can resume her regular life. Rather than the other way around. I mean...crowbar people in her usual clothes, and then be forced to wear jeans and sneakers the rest of her life in hiding? Not on.
Fay - Jun 07, 2008 10:37:42 pm PDT #2494 of 10001
"Fuck Western ideologically-motivated gender identification!" Sulu gasped, and came.
nods thoughtfully
Meara makes a good point. Were I planning acts of homicide. Which of course I'm not.
looks shifty