Deal?
Deal. I'm even thinking of going out to my parents and letting my mom do all my laundry and feed me and stuff.
Angel: Eve. So, I guess we should, I don't know, talk? Eve: About what? Angel: About what happened back there with us. Eve: Angel, it's not like this is the first time I've had sex under a mystical influence. I went to U.C. Santa Cruz.
'Life of the Party'
Spike's Bitches 41: Thrown together to stand against the forces of darkness
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
vw bug - May 22, 2008 11:55:59 am PDT #161 of 10001
Mostly lurking...
meara - May 22, 2008 11:57:06 am PDT #162 of 10001
I mostly hate the constantly coming out. Every time you start a new job or meet a new person you know it's coming - and it's annoying and sometimes a bit stressful.
Yeah, this. I mean, socially I hang with a very queer crew, so not an issue. But work-wise, or if for some reason I'm not in an unusual social scene (for me)...it gets old. I don't want to be all "HELLO! I"m GAAAAAAYYYYY!" as the first thing they learn about me. But I also don't want to be closeted or have them feel when they learn whenever down the road like I was hiding it...
Steph L. - May 22, 2008 11:58:19 am PDT #163 of 10001
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated
I'm even thinking of going out to my parents and letting my mom do all my laundry and feed me and stuff.
Oh, man -- doooooo eeeeeet!!! I'm off work tomorrow because I had requested it a while ago when The Boy and I thought we might go out of town for the holiday weekend. Then we decided not to go out of town, but I figured I'd still take the day off and have a long long weekend.
I don't think a rash is reason enough to convince The Boy to do all my laundry, though. Dang. But I *will* chill out. (At least tonight. No gym for histamine girl.)
vw bug - May 22, 2008 12:00:21 pm PDT #164 of 10001
Mostly lurking...
Oh, man -- doooooo eeeeeet!!!
Ha! That's exactly what my chiro said! Although, I think she may have had a "totally" in there somewhere.
sj - May 22, 2008 12:12:21 pm PDT #165 of 10001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
Oh, man -- doooooo eeeeeet!!!
Seconding this.
megan walker - May 22, 2008 12:28:05 pm PDT #166 of 10001
"What kind of magical sunshine and lollipop world do you live in? Because you need to be medicated."-SFist
I mostly hate the constantly coming out. Every time you start a new job or meet a new person you know it's coming - and it's annoying and sometimes a bit stressful.
I had a similar thing for a long time about my parents, especially when on dates. You never really realize how many times you are asked point-blank questions about your parents, until your answer for most of them is "they're dead." Stops a conversation cold. It's gotten a lot easier now that I've stopped stressing about making the other person feel bad. But I still sort of wait for the moment, because I know it's coming. Of course, people (I assume) aren't judging me for it, so I got that going for me.
DavidS - May 22, 2008 12:41:22 pm PDT #167 of 10001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."
I mostly hate the constantly coming out.
Should I get you a "Gay as Fuck!" button, maybe?
Then I'd have to get megan an "Orphan" button too. Maybe just a sad eyed waif would do. Something like a Gorey urchin.
We should all wear little sashes like Girl Scouts and put on all the buttons that we don't want to have to explain to people: Divorced & Remarried, Shared Custody in East Bay, Author, Dead Mom, A's Fan.
megan walker - May 22, 2008 12:43:43 pm PDT #168 of 10001
"What kind of magical sunshine and lollipop world do you live in? Because you need to be medicated."-SFist
We should all wear little sashes like Girl Scouts and put on all the buttons that we don't want to have to explain to people: Divorced & Remarried, Shared Custody in East Bay, Author, Dead Mom, A's Fan.
Love this.
tommyrot - May 22, 2008 12:46:51 pm PDT #169 of 10001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.
Divorced & Remarried, Shared Custody in East Bay, Author, Dead Mom, A's Fan.
"I'm a Misanthrope - Ask Me How!"
Polter-Cow - May 22, 2008 12:48:54 pm PDT #170 of 10001
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!
I don't think that one is going to work out very well.