I sort of feel like DC and its suburbs are "home", but not a particular dwelling. My condo is too new, and the place I lived for six years I thought of as "temporary", so that didn't work. I liked my previous place, but knew I wasn't staying forever.
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Spike's Bitches 41: Thrown together to stand against the forces of darkness
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Stephanie! That's wonderful news! Please pass on my congratulations to Joe! Yay for you all!
Steph, that's scary! I hope he's ok.
Apparently, at least one Boston high school's prom is tonight. On a Monday? I'm so perplexed.
On Home. I've known I was an East Coast girl ever since I was a little kid--before I'd ever even visited the East Coast. Boston was home from the moment I arrived. My parents' place felt transitional, and I suppose the Cambridge apartment did a bit too. But, this apartment is totally Home. Chicago was kind of home, but I can't imagine ever moving back there. Minnesota was never home, and I would never go back. I suppose part of why Boston feels like home is because I feel safe here. First place in my life...
thanks Burrell! That place looks great.
I lost my balance in the kitchen the other day and immediately reached out and grabbed on to...the knife rack. Oy. I got lucky and didn't lose any digits, but it was a near thing.
Congratulations to Joe, Stephanie
LA feels so much like home to me, I think if I had to move away for whatever reason, I just wouldn't feel right any more. I suppose we all get used to whatever eventually, but this is my city. I belong here.
On the other hand, if this friends-moving-away trend were to continue, eventually I would start to feel pretty bereft, and my "home" would start to feel pretty empty.
Congratulations to Stephanie's Joe!
Steph, ~ma to your boss.
As far as places go, Worcester is not HOME to me. It's too much of a city. I could see myself feeling more comfortable in one of the surrounding towns. Although, our current place doesn't feel as city-ish. I wouldn't want to live where I grew up either, though. HOME HERE is Cape Cod, Narragansett, the Italian Countryside, and really anyplace in England. London is the only city where I have felt HOME HERE, but I think I would still prefer the country.
I was kinda surprised to find LA being home for me. I grew up in San Diego and had a feeling I'd go back there. Then things shifted and I realized it was New York or LA for my career. I ended up in LA and figured it would be okay, but never the place for me. A few years later I realized that this city has felt more like home than anyplace I've lived.
Hmmm.... falls -- Sunday, a friend of mine was stepping over a 30" - the leg on the ground twisted - and broke in three places. Really she wasn't doing anything- and well, being in the neighborhood I am - there were all kinds of people around to see her being driven away in the ambulance. Of course it doesn't help that about three years ago she had a dramatic bicycle accident that broke her foot.
I'll settle from bringing down the crockery if I fall ( but no knife rack please)
I'm not sure about Seattle, still, whether I"ll stay here long-term, whether I"ll end up back in DC, whether I"ll move somewhere else, or the WHY of each of those things (convenience, a partner, a job, a sense of rightness, whatever), but I suspect I could fit in pretty easily wherever I decided to move. Make friends, etc. OK, maybe not a small town with no gays and no liberals, but...