Don't belong. Dangerous, like you. Can't be controlled. Can't be trusted. Everyone could just go on without me and not have to worry. People could be what they wanted to be. Could be with the people they wanted. Live simple. No secrets.

River ,'Objects In Space'


Spike's Bitches 41: Thrown together to stand against the forces of darkness  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


omnis_audis - May 22, 2008 7:08:47 am PDT #104 of 10001
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

:: crosses fingers for raise for Suzi ::

Health~ma to EVERYONE. Oy vey.

OK, keep your fingers crossed. Today could be a very ... um.. interesting day at work.


vw bug - May 22, 2008 7:17:48 am PDT #105 of 10001
Mostly lurking...

Ok. Party is getting rescheduled. Anyone know how to do a reschedule in evite?


Frankenbuddha - May 22, 2008 7:23:33 am PDT #106 of 10001
"We are the Goon Squad and we're coming to town...Beep! Beep!" - David Bowie, "Fashion"

Ok. Party is getting rescheduled. Anyone know how to do a reschedule in evite?

Ack, I don't know, but I'm very sorry to hear your body is treating you poorly again. I know Jon B. uses evite's - you might email him directly.


amych - May 22, 2008 7:29:48 am PDT #107 of 10001
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

vw, you can just go to your invitation and edit whatever you want about it -- when you save the changes, it'll give you the option to send the update out to your guest list (certainly recommended for a date change, but it gives you the option to skip the emailing if you've just made some text or design tweaks.)


vw bug - May 22, 2008 7:35:41 am PDT #108 of 10001
Mostly lurking...

Gotcha. Just did that. Also going to e-mail everyone who had RSVPed as yes.

And, my thesis buddy was actually relieved when I asked about rescheduling. She's got some things she still has to finish up before graduating and this gives her some breathing room too. We were both pushing through for the party this weekend for the other person, which kind of cracks me up.


Nora Deirdre - May 22, 2008 7:46:09 am PDT #109 of 10001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Oh, for crying out loud. I totally just spaced out on my therapy appointment. I suck!


vw bug - May 22, 2008 7:46:47 am PDT #110 of 10001
Mostly lurking...

Oh, Nora! Poor you!


Sean K - May 22, 2008 8:02:12 am PDT #111 of 10001
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty

Good news from me -- I just took a part time job helping install fiber optic internet in schools all over California. Two to three days a week, with some paid travel up and down the state, usually just for one or two nights, and complete and total flexibility to work the other gigs I already have booked or might get.

For $30 an hour to start.

Plus, (and you might be interested in this, Drew), I'll be learning how to terminate fiber optics. And so yet another job skill will be added to my repertoire.


Susan W. - May 22, 2008 8:02:37 am PDT #112 of 10001
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

You know what's annoying?

When someone asks you to arrange a meeting, and you painstakingly contact everyone on a list, find the best possible time for the group, reserve a room, and send out an email notification--and then two days later get a message from the person who asked you to do all this, saying that the group that you'd scheduled for next Wed. at 10:30 will be meeting Thurs. at 10:00, and can you please let the group know? With no explanation, apology, or even acknowledgment that you'd arranged something different.

I like N, but she keeps DOING things like this. Last time it was telling interns at orientation that they should meet in a certain place the next day even though I'd listed a different room on the schedule, because the place she told them is where we'd had the group meet for the past two units.

I mean, why have me around to manage all this administrative/operational crap if you're not going to let me DO it?


sj - May 22, 2008 8:05:39 am PDT #113 of 10001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

{{{Nora}}} It happens to all of us.

Yay, Sean! That sounds wonderful. Good luck!