Tom, Steph and Sparky have good advice, take care of yourself. And sometimes you have to have those breakdowns to get to the breakthroughs.
Elliot: I thought I said discreet. Gwen: What, do you see nipple?
'Just Rewards (2)'
Natter 58: Let's call Venezuela!
Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
Sue - May 30, 2008 7:40:04 am PDT #9773 of 10001
hip deep in pie
Sean K - May 30, 2008 7:40:52 am PDT #9774 of 10001
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty
Sparky and Steph are both wise, Scola. We're all fucked up, my friend.
If it helps, try to focus on the fact that you are deeply loved by a lot of cool, witty, intelligent, attractive people. All of whom think you're cool, witty, intelligent and attractive.
Scrappy - May 30, 2008 7:41:21 am PDT #9775 of 10001
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.
Teppy is wise.
Sean K - May 30, 2008 7:42:00 am PDT #9776 of 10001
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty
Also, I've seen both Jamie Lee Curtis and Anderson Cooper referred to as a silver fox, so I tend to think of it as a gender-neutral term. As it should be.
It would probably take very little enticement to get me to jump into bed with either of those people.
Typo Boy - May 30, 2008 7:42:46 am PDT #9777 of 10001
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.
I had not heard the term Cougar before it the discussion of the last few days. The term does not sound like an automatically negative one to me. If someone told me they were dating a Cougar, my first reaction would be along the lines of "go you!". If they then explained that a Cougar was a woman like "Mrs. Robinson", if that reference made me feel retro enough I might say "hubba hubba".
Steph L. - May 30, 2008 7:44:24 am PDT #9778 of 10001
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated
I'm completely biased, but I think my dad falls in the silver fox category: [link] (please ignore how it seems like I'm throwing a gang sign).
Kathy A - May 30, 2008 7:56:14 am PDT #9779 of 10001
We're very stretchy. - Connie Neil
I was just thinking this morning that one of the main reasons I'm not dyeing my hair, even though it's about 25% white, is that I'm hoping/praying/offering-sacrifices-to-the-gods that my hair will turn that gleaming white in about ten years. It's just waiting out those in-between years for the white to take over.
Steph L. - May 30, 2008 7:57:36 am PDT #9780 of 10001
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated
I'm hoping/praying/offering-sacrifices-to-the-gods that my hair will turn that gleaming white
I'm hedging my bets that my hair will go silver/white like my dad's. My stylist told me, the last time I was in, that she doesn't see ANY grey/white/silver in my hair yet, which seems odd.
§ ita § - May 30, 2008 8:00:35 am PDT #9781 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.
I concur with the people that concur with Steph and Sparky, Tom. Take a weekend off and take care of yourself.
I wouldn't call that a big gap in terms of cultural trends.
I'd thought the song was later, but I'd also never closely associated MILF with American Pie, and thought the term predated the movie. Not really going to do much research from work, though.
Tom Scola - May 30, 2008 8:02:16 am PDT #9782 of 10001
Mr. Scola’s wardrobe by Botany 500
Take a weekend off and take care of yourself.
Unfortunately, spending the weekend alone isn't going to help either.