A year and a half ago, I could have eviscerated him with my thoughts. Now I can barely hurt his feelings. Things used to be so much simpler.

Anya ,'Dirty Girls'


Natter 58: Let's call Venezuela!  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Sue - May 30, 2008 5:29:04 am PDT #9720 of 10001
hip deep in pie

I don't know if Erinaceous is lurking these days (Hi Erin) or if it's just some kind of coincidence, but this was her Facebook status WOTD:

Dingo: an older gay man who prefers to date younger men. (on the model of "cougar")


shrift - May 30, 2008 5:31:22 am PDT #9721 of 10001
"You can't put a price on the joy of not giving a shit." -Zenkitty

I'm so tasty that they'll even nibble on my elbows.

Guys on other side of cubicle are playing the radio. It's tuned to a station playing Evanescence and Sixpence None the Richer.

Bless you, wonderful iPod. I put you on shuffle now.


Amy - May 30, 2008 5:31:53 am PDT #9722 of 10001
Because books.

Wow. Cougar isn't an especially attractive term, but dingo? Not so sexy.


shrift - May 30, 2008 5:32:35 am PDT #9723 of 10001
"You can't put a price on the joy of not giving a shit." -Zenkitty

Maybe a dingo blew your baby?


Frankenbuddha - May 30, 2008 5:32:53 am PDT #9724 of 10001
"We are the Goon Squad and we're coming to town...Beep! Beep!" - David Bowie, "Fashion"

Dingo: an older gay man who prefers to date younger men. (on the model of "cougar")

I'm trying to figure out if that's more or less unflattering than "chickenhawk", what with the whole "dingoes ate my baby" thing.


Allyson - May 30, 2008 5:41:54 am PDT #9725 of 10001
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

SHRIFT! TOO EARLY IN THE MORNING!

I just choked on precious precious coffee.


Sophia Brooks - May 30, 2008 5:42:20 am PDT #9726 of 10001
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

THAT'S what chickenhawk means!

Also, the dingo thing made me snort my coffee.

Also, too, I really don't want to work. But I need to buckle down, because I have no boss....


Fred Pete - May 30, 2008 5:44:55 am PDT #9727 of 10001
Ann, that's a ferret.

I think of "chickenhawk" as kind of sleazy older man interested in fellows that are slightly too young. A "daddy" is an attractive older man who may or may not be interested in younger men. Younger men would more likely be physically attracted to a daddy than to a chickenhawk.

I hadn't heard "dingo" in that context before. I'll only note that there's a big difference between a good-looking 40-year-old and a 40-year-old who tries (and fails miserably) to look and act like he's 20. As well as a 40-year-old whose a 20-year-old boyfriend thinks he has the sexiest eyes and one whose 20-year-old boyfriend likes receiving presents from him.


Amy - May 30, 2008 5:46:34 am PDT #9728 of 10001
Because books.

So what's a "silver fox"?

I'm actually kind of afraid of what shrift might answer.


§ ita § - May 30, 2008 5:48:33 am PDT #9729 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Cougar isn't an especially attractive term

Really? I think most of the big cats are attractive, what with the whole ultimate land predator thing they're working.