This money, it is too much. You should have some small refund.

Niska ,'War Stories'


Natter 58: Let's call Venezuela!  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


tommyrot - May 27, 2008 7:57:33 am PDT #9102 of 10001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

Another awesome event in San Francisco: Cupcake Camp

We're mainly geeks, so it's derived from BarCamp.

We will schedule different cupcake tastings for different time slots (e.g. by flavor, baker, or store), similar to how BarCamp works.


Jesse - May 27, 2008 8:08:41 am PDT #9103 of 10001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

But I'm already paying the delivery fee (it's a small operation, so I'm pretty sure he gets the money) calculated off the fact I have stairs.

If it were me, I would still stick a $10 in my pocket, in case he is expecting a tip.

ION, I just had a long conversation about wedding etiquette, and my boss was saying she got into a huge flamewar on some board by saying she didn't think anyone needed to be invited "and guest" if you didn't want to. What say you people?


sarameg - May 27, 2008 8:09:41 am PDT #9104 of 10001

I swear to god, all the tipping rules drive me batshit.


Theodosia - May 27, 2008 8:09:48 am PDT #9105 of 10001
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

Matt, he is clearly going to fit in.


Jesse - May 27, 2008 8:12:30 am PDT #9106 of 10001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I will say, the rule of thumb in NYC is apparently tip everyone for everything, and more money than you'd think, but I don't necessarily follow that.


Sparky1 - May 27, 2008 8:13:48 am PDT #9107 of 10001
Librarian Warlord

What say you people?

I don't think "and guest" is obligatory - no one should have to double a guest list (double the cost!). If the invitee can't possibly appear without guest, the option is to decline.


msbelle - May 27, 2008 8:15:16 am PDT #9108 of 10001
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

I don't think you need to invite everyone + guest, but then I have never understood taking a date other then someone you are dating to a wedding/any other event - if I am a guest at a wedding they should know if I am datign someone, right?


Jesse - May 27, 2008 8:16:58 am PDT #9109 of 10001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I don't think "and guest" is obligatory - no one should have to double a guest list (double the cost!). If the invitee can't possibly appear without guest, the option is to decline.

That's what we were saying!

if I am a guest at a wedding they should know if I am datign someone, right?

This, too -- if I don't know the person's name, I don't need to have them at my wedding! Although my coworkers were saying living together/engaged/married as the barrier for bringing a date, I wouldn't be that strict.


Matt the Bruins fan - May 27, 2008 8:22:01 am PDT #9110 of 10001
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

What say you people?

Giving single people the option of bringing a guest is traditional, but I don't think it's a big faux pas to just invite your specific relatives and friends. Seating can be an issue, and the catering for wedding receptions is VERY pricey. Not inviting a known significant other would be more of a problem though.


Sophia Brooks - May 27, 2008 8:23:23 am PDT #9111 of 10001
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

Wait-- was she say that if you were a couple, you shouldn't have to include "and guest" or was she saying that if you were invited with an and guest, you HAVE to bring a guest?