There was no place to go when I was a kid. and who knows if who have wanted to . But I am assuming that if you have been riding the subway or other transportation since you were a baby, you would have a fair idea of how it worked. And I'm guessing, just like you have kids help chose the apples at the grocery store you'd have them help get around on the subway. I'm sure it was scary for mo, but if you kid wants to explore - this was a good way to start - better than sneaking out possibly without enough $$ . I actually made a friend come into SF with me - and bring her kids. Because I though her kids needed to have some idea of how to get around in SF, just in case they got curious.

I think the issue is not about whether the kid might get lost, but about the Awful Evil Child Snatchers who are Waiting to Snatch Your Child.

Of course, such things do happen, but I think she's right that it's nowhere near as frequent as a weekend full of NCIS and Wire in the Blood tends to leave one thinking.

The flip side to all of this is my friend who started drinking after school at like 13, because once the school bus dropped her off at home, there was nothing to do. She couldn't ride her bike anywhere because they lived on a big street. Sometimes she went out back and started fires -- OK, maybe she was just a bad seed. But still! I could do things that were still slightly bad but not nearly as dangerous at that age, thanks to public transportation.

I walked a mile and a half to and from kindergarden. This was in LA, so there was no snow. It may well have been uphill both ways. By the time was in 2nd grade, I was stopping by the liquor store on the way home to buy comic books - which were in front of the counter where they sold cigarettes and bubble gum.

I think I wasn't taking buses on my own until middle school, but I do recall walking to and from school starting in kindergarten. I had a sister who was 4 years older than me so I think it was easy for my parents to let her and her friends supervise the younger kids.

Shit, when I was 12 or 13 (so older than that kid, but not by much), my best friend and I decided the fun way to spend our day was to get on the subway and get off at a stop we'd never been to before!

HA! Me too, when we'd come up to Newton to visit my aunt/uncle/cousins. My cousin V. and I would spend ages ridin' them rails. We would always have to get off at Kendall to play the instruments! Of course, now I want to strangle the kids that do that when I'm waiting for the T, but that's just how I know I'm old.

I walked a mile and a half to and from kindergarden. This was in LA, so there was no snow. It may well have been uphill both ways. By the time was in 2nd grade, I was stopping by the liquor store on the way home to buy comic books - which were in front of the counter where they sold cigarettes and bubble gum.

Me too! Only trade LA for Hilo, Hawaii. And my comics were Richie Rich and Archie!

And I still have a packet of Sea Monkeys somewhere...

We would always have to get off at Kenmore to play the instruments! Of course, now I want to strangle the kids that do that when I'm waiting for the T, but that's just how I know I'm old.

Heh.

We ended up in like Quincy, and walked back to downtown.

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My elementary as .2 miles away, around the corner, basically. I don't think my mom walked me/met me at the crosswalk for the whole year of kinder. Probably just the first few weeks, maybe. I don't recall. Definitely not after the first day in first grade. For jr. high/middle school, the bus stop was about the same distance away. Sometimes we could even convince the driver to take a slightly different route and drop us off right in front of a friend's home. That was awesome!

I was driven by upperclassmen/drove myself to high school. (And my brother to middle school. Uhg. We fought a lot.)