Death is your art. You make it with your hands day after day. That final gasp, that look of peace. And part of you is desperate to know: What's it like? Where does it lead you? And now you see, that's the secret. Not the punch you didn't throw or the kicks you didn't land. She really wanted it. Every Slayer has a death wish. Even you.

Spike ,'Conversations with Dead People'


Spike's Bitches 40: Buckle Up, Kids! Daddy's Puttin' the Hammer Down.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


meara - May 06, 2008 2:20:10 pm PDT #7982 of 10001

you could just say that your responsibilities increased after she left.

Depends--do you want to make the point that you stepped up quickly/without training? Or just that you had more responsibilities than your title/can do her work. I think left unexpectedly is good if you're going for the former...

Kristin, I think the letter sounds good...you are already charging when she doesn't show up? It does seem to be a "let you down gently she doesn't need me anymore" thing, though, so maybe deemphasize that if it's not your plan...


Pix - May 06, 2008 2:27:00 pm PDT #7983 of 10001
The status is NOT quo.

No, I don't charge when she doesn't show. It didn't occur to me to set that policy in the beginning, which is why I've been so repeatedly screwed lately.


Pix - May 06, 2008 2:37:21 pm PDT #7984 of 10001
The status is NOT quo.

Coffee: Okay, I sent it. Yay conflict-avoidy me. I modified that second-to-last paragraph to read:

I don't want to push to meet with her if you feel that she no longer needs regular tutoring. However, if you would like to continue our sessions, I need to request 24-hour notice in non-emergency situations.
Fingers crossed that this doesn't cause the mom to get nasty.


vw bug - May 06, 2008 2:38:35 pm PDT #7985 of 10001
Mostly lurking...

I think it looks good, Kristin. I hope you get positive results from it.

And DEFINITELY institute a cancellation fee!


meara - May 06, 2008 3:38:25 pm PDT #7986 of 10001

An hour and no posts? What's going ON here???

Or rather, why is it NOT going on here??

Hrmph. Fine. I suppose I should get pretty for my evening of dinner and scrabble, get off the internet. I get the hint.

Maybe you're all out wishing really really hard for your candidate to win the primary of your choice.


NoiseDesign - May 06, 2008 3:47:33 pm PDT #7987 of 10001
Our wings are not tired

I'm trying to work out budget numbers for a huge project. My head hurts.


Cashmere - May 06, 2008 3:50:56 pm PDT #7988 of 10001
Now tagless for your comfort.

I was trying to get the kids fed after yoga class. My computer is back! Yay!


Laga - May 06, 2008 4:15:08 pm PDT #7989 of 10001
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

I was orienting new hires. One seemed outstanding. The other one seemed stoned. Orientation was a bit short-notice so I'm giving him the benefit of the doubt that he was just tired.


vw bug - May 06, 2008 4:35:47 pm PDT #7990 of 10001
Mostly lurking...

I'm working on my PCP's quilt (here's a picture of the first square: [link] ). I should probably be in bed, but I'm not tired, so I'll work a bit longer.


SuziQ - May 06, 2008 4:42:51 pm PDT #7991 of 10001
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

I had cleaners come out and do a deep clean on the house today. Nice eh? Except even though I told them the size of the house and the scope of what was needed, they still underestimated the time, so I'm going around the house making a list of what they missed and they are coming back in the am to finish. They did a lot, but man, now the stuff they didn't do is even more glaringly dirty. I feel like such a slob.