Now I have to run to lj to see why I need to hate Connie.

Oh, as they say, dear. Hopefully I'll still have friends by the time the night is through.

Hey there, Mister T!

See, when I found myself falling in love with BtVS in a mighty fannish way, I felt sure that somewhere out there there had to be other adults interested in talking about the show. Not just going OMG11! Angle is so totally hot!!11!, but actually TALKING ABOUT THE SHOW. Surely? So I tentatively tried The Bronze, of which I had heard, and promptly got jumped on by resentful teenagers brandishing emoticons because I was spelling properly and using long words and generally not approaching things in the proper spirit. (This is not to say that everyone at The Bronze was like that - just that this was the impression I gained, and the reason I slunk away.)

So I ended up at The Guardian's Talk Boards, specifically the Film Unlimited section (where one also discusses telly), and spent a couple of happy years there, occasionally talking Buffy, as well as discussing other shows and movies. This also involved regular meetups to go and watch random arthouse films and Then Beer, over which to discuss said films. It was great. But then one day Salon members staged a sort of attack, and invaded the main Guardian Talk area. So Guardian Talk people grabbed their flags and ran over to plant them in Salon, and it was all quite amusing. I occasionally lurked in the main Talk area (which tends towards shoutiness and rivalry far more than the lovely FU area, or indeed the library-like tranquility of Books Unlimited), and out of curiosity I went to look at Salon.

And my eye was caught by the Buffista thread. 'Oooh!' I thought to myself.

Now, at this point I did not join said Buffista thread. But I was alerted to its existence. I think I probably came looking for you folks after JimET (who was also a regular at the Guardian) mentioned you. But I was shy. And then I found the filk, and thought that was a hilarious idea, so I wrote some. But then I learned that it had to be posted on the site, not just randomly sent in by someone you'd never heard of. So I scurried into a thread, blushing quite hard, and posted a variation on The Lady is a Tramp, all about Darla. (TLiaVamp, obviously.)

iirc, ita said "One of us! One of us!" And I decided to stay.

...'course this was back on WorldCrossing, before the culmination of The Great Buffista Migration. And in those days everyone had avatars! I remember being terribly impressed by Jilli's, and spending many happy hours crafting my own little images of Willow and Tara with a floating rose, and various other things. Although nothing could ever compete with Matt's awesome Angel/Lindsey Evil Hand icon. Superb!

Oh, I do miss the avatars.

Matt's awesome Angel/Lindsey Evil Hand icon

I had such avatar envy.

Is it wrong that my first thought was "it's just like something out of Merrkat Manor!"?

Matt's awesome Angel/Lindsey Evil Hand icon

wrod.

Also, hi everybody!!! Much craziness this month. Am hoping May is sane. Er. Saner.

And the little animated banner at the top of the page! I loved that. Lorne with his wee head!

Hey Raq, in cleaning my apartment, I found a bulletin board/whiteboard thing that was left at the DC F2F that I think was yours. Is it?

I'm rereading one of the Number 1 Ladies Detective Agency books. Botswana seems like a neat place. Though I know that basing a "that place sounds neat" decision on a novel isn't always a good idea.

I dunno - I went to live in Canada for a year in no small part because of the Anne of Green Gables movie and a couple of Charles de Lint books. Loved it! (....er, and I've had exactly the same respone to the Number 1 Ladies Detective Agency books too, actually.)

Obviously, I'm pretty much the poster girl for 'Go Foreign Parts! Choose Foreign Parts!', but I'd think that your experiences in Israel will have given you a pretty good sense of how much you thrive in different circumstances - and I got the impression that you enjoyed that a lot.

So I vote Botswana! Extend the Buffista Diaspora!

(...whaddaya mean I don't get a vote? Pah!)

Botswana seems like a neat place. Though I know that basing a "that place sounds neat" decision on a novel isn't always a good idea.

For traveling, I think it's a fabulous idea! For moving and living somewhere, maybe not so much. [ETA: OTOH, if I means I have someone to visit in new exotic places, I"m all for that!]

Hi Raq!! I hope May is saner too!! Especially if that means we see you more!

Ay. Thank god I got my new health insurance yesterday--I called today to make an appointment for new migraine meds, cause this shit ain't cutting it. Today is the fourth migraine in two weeks.