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Spike's Bitches 40: Buckle Up, Kids! Daddy's Puttin' the Hammer Down.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


beth b - May 02, 2008 10:44:31 am PDT #7428 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

yay MM!!

Susan - here are some of the things I'd think about -- Do I want to be in cities - will I need a car? What kinds of places do I wnat to stay? ( 3 star 4 star 2star? ) Do you want to stick to a food budget? or any budget? once the family goes home are you going to need to stay in a safer place? will you need a babysitter? If you couldn't do your dream of 6 weeks - what # sounds good? I think I'd start somewhere in the neighborhood of 2000.00 a week. As you get closer to the time you can adjust.


beth b - May 02, 2008 10:46:03 am PDT #7429 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

I forgot ....pppbbbtthhh to the big mouse. Pay your bills!


Hil R. - May 02, 2008 10:49:33 am PDT #7430 of 10001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I've got most of my savings in a citibank e-savings account, which was getting a pretty good interest rate for a while, but that's dropped lately. It's still giving me around $13 a month on about $6,400, though, so that's something. (I am way too lazy right now to calculate what that actual rate would be.)

I just went to a seminar on finding math academic jobs. It was terrifying.


Laga - May 02, 2008 10:57:31 am PDT #7431 of 10001
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

from the smacking sounds I think the boys are sparring in their room. I wonder if it would be weird if I went and stood in the doorway.


hippocampus - May 02, 2008 11:10:52 am PDT #7432 of 10001
not your mom's socks.

I wonder if it would be weird if I went and stood in the doorway.

um... have they paid rent yet? No? Ok then. You get to do what you want.


Laga - May 02, 2008 11:15:41 am PDT #7433 of 10001
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

yes, the rent is paid! And the sparring is over anyway.


Laga - May 02, 2008 11:23:25 am PDT #7434 of 10001
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

I'm annoyed because now when I type "bu" in my address bar it comes up "bulletins dot myspace dot com". I have to type buf to get here and I keep forgetting and going to myspace (ick) by mistake.


Hil R. - May 02, 2008 11:26:55 am PDT #7435 of 10001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Judging my this job search seminar I went to today, I haven't published anywhere near enough. I've got a decent amount of teaching experience, actually I've got teaching experience beyond what most grad students are expected to have, but I'm behind on research stuff. Need to get something published, and soon. Which is not being helped by the fact that, each time I think that I have something workable, my advisor finds some other huge amount of work that'll add several months to writing it that he thinks would be a "really good addition."

I think that this weekend, I'm just going to put together what I have of this current paper that I know is ready to go and just explain to him that I need to get my name out there.


amych - May 02, 2008 11:30:49 am PDT #7436 of 10001
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

I've never taken any money OUT of it, and I'm not actually sure how.

If you've given ING the details of another account (for setting up auto deposits, frex) you can transfer money back the other way. If not, they'll send you a check.


megan walker - May 02, 2008 11:43:25 am PDT #7437 of 10001
"What kind of magical sunshine and lollipop world do you live in? Because you need to be medicated."-SFist

Susan,

That's awesome financial news!

I think the advice to discuss all this with a financial planner is very sound. However, I would not give them any control over the money or ask for advice about the cost of the trip. In my experience, what one "needs" for a trip can vary wildly. My "need" is your "want" is another person's luxury.

Personally, I would figure out what the type of vacation you are looking at would cost now, and use that as a base figure to ask the planner how best to save for it.

I think the family part should be easy to price out. The research part is trickier. Will that mean lots of traveling around? England? France?

One thing I would suggest if you will be renting a car is learning to drive stick. It's been a long time since I rented a car in Paris, but I remember that renting an automatic was about double renting a stickshift.