Well, we may not have parted on the best of terms. I realize certain words were exchanged. Also, certain... bullets. But that's air through the engine. It's past. We're business people.

Mal ,'Serenity'


Spike's Bitches 40: Buckle Up, Kids! Daddy's Puttin' the Hammer Down.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


beekaytee - May 02, 2008 7:17:59 am PDT #7363 of 10001
Compassionately intolerant

I know it's not a drugstore brand but I don't use anything but Blinc's Kiss Me now. So great!

Where do you buy it? There are no retailers near my zip code...is there a preferred distributor?

Also, in looking at the blinc site, am I seeing it right that they recommend brushing the product on the reverse side of the lash? Like closing the eye and sweeping downward? Have I been applying mascara wrong all this time?


meara - May 02, 2008 7:19:48 am PDT #7364 of 10001

I try to send them snail mail the same or very next day. Though I've been known to send a few personal and one group ones, since in this industry you usually interview with like, fifteen people. Usually your boss, some coworkers, some people from other departments, your boss' boss...

One of them is "I'm not a subcriber, how about a gift subscription?" How tacky is that?

Very tacky.


JZ - May 02, 2008 7:22:21 am PDT #7365 of 10001
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

I thank everybody, by email. Except for the last round of interviews, when I met with seven or eight people for one job in one day, five of whom were completely peripheral people I'd see maybe once a month; there was no possible way I could make myself grind out eight individual and charming thank-you emails to people who weren't even part of the hiring process, so I just thanked their supervisor but made sure to name-job-and-one-personal-detail-check each of them in that note. The entire process was so loathsome, I may have to stay here until I retire.

How-some-ever, loathsome though it may be, HUGE YAYS TO AIMS for rocking it! I'm vibing hard for you and that job.

Gorgeous cut, Stephanie! You look somehow simultaneously younger and more sophisticated. Neat trick for $20!


lisah - May 02, 2008 7:24:36 am PDT #7366 of 10001
Punishingly Intricate

I find that a personal hand-written note goes a LONG way and can make the difference between two good candidates.

Well, it kind of depends on the industry, I think. I'm sure my company wouldn't care if a thank you was e- or snail-mailed. So whichever is more expedient is probably best.

Plus I have terrible handwriting. Nobody needs to be subjected to that.

(FTR, I think a thank you absolutely must be sent regardless of the method of transport!)


Daisy Jane - May 02, 2008 7:25:25 am PDT #7367 of 10001
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."

I got this job so fast I didn't have time for a thank you.

So tired. When will I learn that watchin Doctor Who right before bed assures that I will have strange wakeful dreams?


Susan W. - May 02, 2008 7:27:10 am PDT #7368 of 10001
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

The entire process was so loathsome, I may have to stay here until I retire.

Indeed. I so envy all y'all who haven't had to go through this process in a decade or more!


vw bug - May 02, 2008 7:28:13 am PDT #7369 of 10001
Mostly lurking...

Well, it kind of depends on the industry, I think. I'm sure my company wouldn't care if a thank you was e- or snail-mailed. So whichever is more expedient is probably best.

That's true.


Kathy A - May 02, 2008 7:28:14 am PDT #7370 of 10001
We're very stretchy. - Connie Neil

I had a Sarah Jane Adventures dream last night. Very strange.


lisah - May 02, 2008 7:29:30 am PDT #7371 of 10001
Punishingly Intricate

My co-worker who interviewed me for this job was just talking yesterday about how I'd made him come down and interview me at a diner near my old job (about 1/2 an hour from here). He is still amused by that. I was like, "I wanted to see if you were serious!" ha!


Daisy Jane - May 02, 2008 7:29:34 am PDT #7372 of 10001
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."

I've only seen most of the first episode of SJA-again right before bed.