If it were me, I'd just go the "That's really too big a project for me to take on right now" route. Lies are the lubricant that makes civilization possible.
I think people have to wake up from that type of delusion on their own. I don't think there's any point in trying to talk her out of it, unless she's about to give all her money to this guy and quit her job to go on a quest for fairies.
Fay, can't you just say that you don't have the kind of free time that such a project would require?
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(x-post with Ginger!) Or do you also want to address the "What are you DOING?!?" aspect of it as well?
I think Steph now has a Lucy clone too, but hers uses an alias.
Kato, the vampire slayer.
Or you could say you don't like him without bringing up all the other stuff you're afraid she'll take personally. I mean... nothing wrong with not liking people.
Fay, I rather like the idea of deflecting the book-edit request with, "Nope, sorry, can't possibly," while making vague noises about not having the time to devote to it. If she is so enthusiastic she starts sounding like she won't take no for an answer, tell her, "There is something about this guy's energy that feels off to me. My heart tells me the vibes that would come through his words would be inimical to my highest path. And I really must listen to my own intuition on this."
All your feelings about him aside, she's asking you to do something people get paid for, for no remuneration, yes? Without any prevarication, I'd say you really DON'T have the time!
I'm feeling really cranky today. Like REALLY cranky. Like John-Wesley-Hardin-kill-a-man-just-fer-snorin' cranky.
What's up with that?
I'm feeling ready to kick some ass. I wish everyone else would get caught up so I can start some major ass-kicking!
Patience, not my virtue.
I'm feeling really cranky today. Like REALLY cranky. Like John-Wesley-Hardin-kill-a-man-just-fer-snorin' cranky.
And this is different from any other day...how?