Damn it! You know what? I'm sick of this crap. I'm sick of being the guy who eats insects and gets the funny syphilis. As of this moment, it's over. I'm finished being everybody's butt monkey!

Xander ,'Lessons'


Natter 57 Varieties  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Steph L. - Mar 26, 2008 6:31:40 am PDT #7341 of 10001
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Legally male and pregnant. Either I understand gender identity or I don't--I just can't work out which.

So, he was born a female, underwent some reassignment surgery but kept the female reproductive organs? But is legally a man?

I admit I don't understand what criteria must be met in order for a transgendered person to be *legally* considered their "new" gender. Wouldn't having female reproductive organs pretty much be a criterion that puts one definitively in the "female" camp? In legal terms, that is? (Obviously, a person can self-identify as whatever gender he/she wishes. But in the eyes of the government, what does it take, if not reproductive organs?)

Interesting.


Jessica - Mar 26, 2008 6:36:54 am PDT #7342 of 10001
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

I admit I don't understand what criteria must be met in order for a transgendered person to be *legally* considered their "new" gender.

IIRC, it varies by state, but commonly you have to live as your preferred gender for at least a year before you can be considered legally that gender. My understanding is that "bottom surgery" is actually much less common than most non-trans people assume.


Matt the Bruins fan - Mar 26, 2008 6:38:00 am PDT #7343 of 10001
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

Happy Birthday, Allyson!

Most. Distrubing. Teddy Bear. Ever.

I don't find it disturbing at all... not sure what all the fuss is about.

Dude, it looks less like a bear, more like a morbidly obese Furry caught in the process of suiting up!

Admittedly, not as freaky as JZ's stuffed animal. But then that's true of most David Cronenberg creations as well.


Vortex - Mar 26, 2008 6:39:35 am PDT #7344 of 10001
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

"Bottom surgery" is serious business, it's not cosmetic. (not that cosmetic surgery isn't serious as well). It's a major surgery with long recovery time, so I'm not surprised that most people don't elect to get it.

I do think that being upset that health professionals won't use the male gender is expecting a bit much, though.


Kathy A - Mar 26, 2008 6:51:17 am PDT #7345 of 10001
We're very stretchy. - Connie Neil

Happy birthday, Allyson!!

The word "birthday" reminded me that today is also my niece's birthday--I'll have to call her tonight to give her my happies since I forgot to send her a card. Oh, well, I'll be able to see her in a few weeks.


flea - Mar 26, 2008 6:55:08 am PDT #7346 of 10001
information libertarian

Happy birthday to Allyson!

My Task of the Afternoon is cataloging homework. I am so dreading this that I am now considering working on my annual review self-assessment instead. Yes, it is that bad.

Also, I bring you Babies In The Snow (mine): [link]


msbelle - Mar 26, 2008 6:57:12 am PDT #7347 of 10001
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

This is the house in my hood that I want right now. [link] It's only a block away, but a house not a co-op and more than double the size of my place. I'd have to figure out how to make the 3rd fl a private access apt. well, after I won the lotto so that I could buy it.


Jessica - Mar 26, 2008 7:03:09 am PDT #7348 of 10001
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

Oh wow, msbelle. I want that house too.

[Actually I want this one which is a block away from my very first apt in NYC.]


Nutty - Mar 26, 2008 7:10:07 am PDT #7349 of 10001
"Mister Spock is on his fanny, sir. Reports heavy damage."

My understanding is that "bottom surgery" is actually much less common than most non-trans people assume.

Right. Not least because, F-to-M surgery is kind of... not really perfected. I gather M-to-F is much further along, but I don't know how it does on the "retain sensation" scale. (And anyway, in general, who takes a sharp knife to the crotch in the absence of necessity? Besides all those scary people who want designer cooters on Dr. 90210?)


Jesse - Mar 26, 2008 7:11:45 am PDT #7350 of 10001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

flea, I hate to break it to you, but your kids aren't babies! I can't believe how big the Dillo is.