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Buffy ,'Lessons'


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Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Glamcookie - Mar 21, 2008 7:05:56 am PDT #6432 of 10001
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

We did a fixed rate 5 year and got a crazy low interest rate during that time. We weren't sure we'd stay in our condo or try to buy a house at some point during those 5 years. However, we had a broker who kept us updated constantly on rates. When we were approaching the 5 year mark, we went to a 30 year fixed and our rate only went up a small amount. We saved a nice chunk of change for that 5 years. Plan now is to stay put for another year or two and watch the market. If it becomes feasible, we'll buy a house and hope to keep the condo as a rental (our mortgage is way less than rents in our area).


Kathy A - Mar 21, 2008 7:12:30 am PDT #6433 of 10001
We're very stretchy. - Connie Neil

Did I read somewhere that Easter's not going to fall this early again for, like, two hundred years or something?

My mom sent me an e-mail with the following:

1) The next time Easter will be this early (March 23) will be the year 2228 (220 years from now). The last time it was this early was 1913 (so if you're 95 or older, you are the only ones that were around for that).

2) The next time it will be a day earlier, March 22, will be in the year 2285 (277 years from now). The last time it was on March 22 was 1818. So, no one alive today has or will ever see it any earlier than this year.


Fred Pete - Mar 21, 2008 7:21:42 am PDT #6434 of 10001
Ann, that's a ferret.

We don't get "introductory low-interest" on a variable rate mortgage. We just get a lower rate than is offered on a fixed mortgage.

Right. Because it isn't just being able to afford changes in the index. It's that the payments are often artificially low for some reason or other.

So if, just to toss out numbers, the rate should be 5% for the first five years based on the index, and you're paying 1% under an introductory rate, you're going to see a jump in your payment in the sixth year regardless. And if interest rates go up, that jump is going to be very big. Add in that some of these mortgages only require you to pay interest for several years. So when you have to start paying back the amount you actually borrowed, your payment jumps by an additional amount.

We got a 30 year fixed when we moved 5 years ago. Oddly enough, our rate is lower than some of the rates trumpeted in the "Lower Your Rate!" junk mail we're always getting.


brenda m - Mar 21, 2008 7:21:51 am PDT #6435 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

This is very similar to my problem. Even when I found a church that had traditional pomp AND liberal politics, no one ever welcomed me into the community, so I drifted away.

I could give you a rec, but it's in Manhattan.


megan walker - Mar 21, 2008 7:28:16 am PDT #6436 of 10001
"What kind of magical sunshine and lollipop world do you live in? Because you need to be medicated."-SFist

Getting a five-year ARM when you only plan to stay in a house three years is normally a perfectly reasonable thing to do.

See, this is where I think we're coming at it from radically different viewpoints, because, for the life of me, unless I'm paying cash, I can't imagine buying a house I was only planning to live in for 3 years.


Nutty - Mar 21, 2008 7:28:34 am PDT #6437 of 10001
"Mister Spock is on his fanny, sir. Reports heavy damage."

Among Ashkenazic Jews, a common treat at this time of year is hamentaschen (lit. Haman's pockets).

You know, I spent almost my entire childhood under the belief that they were actually Haman's ears. Like, trophies from his dead body. And the hat thing was just so that the little kids wouldn't have nightmares.

No?


Jesse - Mar 21, 2008 7:32:10 am PDT #6438 of 10001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I could give you a rec, but it's in Manhattan.

I'm open.


tommyrot - Mar 21, 2008 7:47:39 am PDT #6439 of 10001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

Dunno if anyone will want this, but here's how to read the WSJ online for free: [link]

You might be wondering, Hey, I'd like to do this, but is it ... "wrong"?

It is not. The Wall Street Journal wants people to come to its site for free -- if it didn't, it wouldn't give readers of Digg and Google News full access to its articles.

I'll grant you that setting your browser to spoof Digg is slightly deceptive. But it's a minor fib, on the order of, say, handing a cashier an expired coupon.


megan walker - Mar 21, 2008 7:47:59 am PDT #6440 of 10001
"What kind of magical sunshine and lollipop world do you live in? Because you need to be medicated."-SFist

This is very similar to my problem. Even when I found a church that had traditional pomp AND liberal politics, no one ever welcomed me into the community, so I drifted away.

Have you tried Grace, down on Broadway by NYU?


Jesse - Mar 21, 2008 7:49:42 am PDT #6441 of 10001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Have you tried Grace, down on Broadway by NYU?

I have not. There are many many churches I have not been to... I'm thinking about trying one in my neighborhood, because that would seem to up the odds of my actually going.