Well, my days of not taking you seriously are certainly coming to a middle.

Mal ,'Our Mrs. Reynolds'


Spike's Bitches 39: Cuppa Tea, Cuppa Tea, Almost Got Shagged, Cuppa Tea...  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


vw bug - Feb 23, 2008 8:44:11 am PST #7458 of 10001
Mostly lurking...

Bitch #1: Dad, why in all of tarnation did you think it was a good idea to bring your car to the airport today and then leave for me to park on the street for a week? Mom's car would have made so much more sense--especially since it is a) smaller; b) older; and a c) less expensive model. Instead, now I have to shovel out an even bigger spot for your car and be nervous that it's going to get stolen while you're gone. Thanks.

Bitch #2: Landlord, why haven't you made arrangements to get our steps and sidewalk shoveled? We got like 9" of snow, and there hasn't even been a phone call to see if we need help with the shoveling. And you know what? I'm not doing it this time. I'm recovering from mono, and it's bad enough that I'm going to have to shovel out my car and a space for my dad's monstrous vehicle. I don't have the energy to do the rest. And? The mailman didn't deliver our mail today because of it. Grrrrrr.


Glamcookie - Feb 23, 2008 8:56:42 am PST #7459 of 10001
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

Belinda links should be labeled NSFL (not safe for life). t shudder


Hil R. - Feb 23, 2008 9:03:08 am PST #7460 of 10001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Hil, what's the solution to that one, using that menu?

Not sure. The point is that it's an NP-complete problem. I might take a look at it a little later, if I've got some time to kill, since I'm kinda curious.


sj - Feb 23, 2008 9:06:35 am PST #7461 of 10001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

omnis, I usually like to tell people ahead of time because I am a coward about having to deal with it in person, but then again I never really dated before TCG, and with him I let my friend that set us up tell him before we met.


Ginger - Feb 23, 2008 9:23:39 am PST #7462 of 10001
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

Omnis, fwiw, I would tell her directly pre-date, because if she is the type of person to cut and run for that reason, I would want to know before I showed up.

You could send her one of those pictures, in which you are very cute.


DCJensen - Feb 23, 2008 10:06:41 am PST #7463 of 10001
All is well that ends in pizza.

I'm for telling in advance, too.

Even the nicest person may be thrown by new information that they would have to process on top of the normal in-person-meeting jitters.


Pix - Feb 23, 2008 10:11:30 am PST #7464 of 10001
The status is NOT quo.

javachick: omnis_audis "Spikes Bitches 39: Cuppa Tea, Cuppa Tea, Almost Got Shagged, Cuppa Tea..." Feb 15, 2008 1:39:43 pm PST


Sparky1 - Feb 23, 2008 10:39:09 am PST #7465 of 10001
Librarian Warlord

omnis, I think you have to do what makes you comfortable. Just as you are not AllAboutTheSticks, it's unlikely she is AllAboutTheHiking. Both of you have found something else interesting to recommend yourselves to the other, so you'll talk about those things.

My DH, for instance, plays way too much Ultimate Frisbee. I can't stand it and avoid the Frisbee fields, his tournaments, and his team members. But I enjoy talking to him about how he played, wins, loses, how he felt, what he saw, etc., because his life is interesting to me even if Frisbee isn't. I hope I'm making some sense here, but the point I'm making is that even if hiking is a large part of her life, there would be ways to stay in step with her without taking all those hikes with her.

Meanwhile, my puppy is sleeping blissfully in front of the radiator, having had a most wonderful visit with bonny and Bart this morning. bonny is a wonderful hostess and Bartleby, like the gentledog that he is, shared all his toys.


vw bug - Feb 23, 2008 10:44:30 am PST #7466 of 10001
Mostly lurking...

and Bartleby, like the gentledog that he is, shared all his toys.

Heh. She should maybe never have a playdate with Toto. He's a little overprotective of his toys. And, he also kind of assumes that any dog toy is his. Poor Rachie doesn't "own" any toys when Toto is visiting. Fortunately, Rachie doesn't seem to mind much...unless it's a precious bone.


Steph L. - Feb 23, 2008 12:36:31 pm PST #7467 of 10001
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Hil, what's the solution to that one, using that menu?

Not sure. The point is that it's an NP-complete problem.

Uh, I don't know what an NP-complete problem is. So I guess I missed the point. I was just taking it literally, that it was a math-y scenario that could be solved.