Tracy: Well-- That call -- That call means you just murdered me. Mal: No, son. You murdered yourself. I just carried the bullet a while.

'The Message'


Spike's Bitches 39: Cuppa Tea, Cuppa Tea, Almost Got Shagged, Cuppa Tea...  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Toddson - Feb 15, 2008 9:21:47 am PST #6704 of 10001
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

I found an official Fashion Police badge. (really!) I'm just WAITING for an opportunity to pull that out.


vw bug - Feb 15, 2008 9:39:06 am PST #6705 of 10001
Mostly lurking...

I just got an e-mail from my therapist, checking in on me, because she saw updates in my medical record (the ER visit last night and all of the diagnoses). She was challenging me to practice mindfulness to get through this and not get stuck in "blaming" myself for being sick--as if this is just continuation of ineffective patterns of dealing with stress.

And it's got me thinking. I wonder if I'm sicker, because I was afraid that that was what was happening (that mental stress was manifesting as physical illness), so I just kept pushing and pushing, trying to break the pattern, until everything just built up and made me stop and pay attention.

I'm not going to use this as another tool to beat myself up with, but boy, that's a little frightening. Mindfulness. Yes. Need more of that, me thinks.


Atropa - Feb 15, 2008 9:39:06 am PST #6706 of 10001
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

I found an official Fashion Police badge. (really!) I'm just WAITING for an opportunity to pull that out.

Oooh, where?! I need one.

Miss vw, I am glaring at the monitor in a stern manner, and it is directed at you. You are unwell and need taking care of, stop worrying about if you worried your mom. Moms worry about their kids, no matter what age the kid in question is.


askye - Feb 15, 2008 9:39:26 am PST #6707 of 10001
Thrive to spite them

Poor Bug!

Don't feel bad about needing your Mom you've got three things going on! Most people would have waved the white flag at 1!

um... I'm posting from work, just briefly. I read omni's rant. Sorry stuff irrirating you. I'm flying solo right now! wheee....

and I'm doing okay I reallylike this job. Buffista~ma is the best.

Oh and speaking of ~ma, one of my new Second Life friends' Mom is sick and if anyone has a spare bit of healing ~ma to send out to Rosie's Mom she'd appreciate it. (I won't say more than that becuase I, unlike The Secret, believe the universe if smart enough to get the ~ma to the right person...plus who knows maybe it will go out to all Mom's of Rosie who might need some ~ma).


Sparky1 - Feb 15, 2008 9:40:11 am PST #6708 of 10001
Librarian Warlord

vw, I'm glad you asked for help! I hope she brings you a fluffy new pillow to rest with.

I left for the DMV this morning at about 10:30 a.m. -- I just got home. The most amazing part is that the new DL picture isn't half bad. You can't even tell I died at least an hour before they took it of hunger and tedium while waiting for my number to appear.


vw bug - Feb 15, 2008 9:40:59 am PST #6709 of 10001
Mostly lurking...

I hope she brings you a fluffy new pillow to rest with.

Bless her heart, she did that last night (or rather this morning) when she joined me at the ER. It's blissful!


Aims - Feb 15, 2008 9:45:17 am PST #6710 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.

My boss just called me BEE-ESS! I asked if I could take off at 4 cause I have a shitload of schoolwork to do tonight and by Monday and he said, "You are NOT going to go do homework on a FRIDAY NIGHT! BEE-ESS!"

I'ma kick him in the nuts.


Maria - Feb 15, 2008 9:56:18 am PST #6711 of 10001
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift

vw, just listen to Teppy. She's on a roll this week. Please take care of yourself, without beating yourself up over it.

Sparky, backflung.

Empress, I'm going to come out there and blister his ears with invectives and curses in three different languages. By the time I'm finished he'll be deaf, sterile, blind, pock-marked, and covered in warts. Then we'll kick him in the nuts.


Toddson - Feb 15, 2008 9:57:23 am PST #6712 of 10001
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

OK, the Empress smites, but Maria comes up with some good THREATS.


Maria - Feb 15, 2008 10:02:42 am PST #6713 of 10001
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift

And together, we fight CRIME!

The Empress and the Bitch--saving the world from asses, idiots and neo-conservatives since 2004.