My Mom has accidentally sent an email to my sister that was intended for me. The email was about how much my sister's actions have hurt me. Now sister is talking about moving to India. Mostly I feel bad for Mom because I've sent emails to the wrong person before and I know how awful it can be. And my fingernails which were finally starting to grow but are now being gnawed at every time I recall Mom's mistake.
Ack! Totally understand the sense of ghastly stomach-churning ick here, having contributed to a similar inadvertent email fuckup a few years ago wrt my mum seconding my sister on a not terribly complimentary email about her then-boyfriend. BUT - your sister's bloke is a dickhead. She is choosing to ignore the fact that his actions, of which she is entirely aware, have consequences - ie that you have been hurt by his hurtful behaviour.
So very easy for me to say this, I realise, since she's not my sister, but - seriously, she needs this cluestick. And if she moves to India? Well, you know, that could be a great thing for your relationship with her.
It certainly shouldn't feel like an emotional blackmail thing - that you have to pretend not to be hurt/bend over and ask to be screwed some more just so she doesn't have to make a melodramatic exit stage left. Moving to India would be a fabulous new adventure, and would be a fabulous roundhouse kick in the face in terms of cluestickage about a whole shedload of things. And if she can make a go of it there? Yay to her! For India is pretty damned awesome, and vibrant, and exciting, and fascinating. But also, it's about as far-removed as it's possible to be from her present life. So it's entirely likely that if she does decide to go and be an expat, she'll find herself appreciating the hell out of you.
But, you know - not my family. So I shouldn't want to smack her in the nose, really.
Anyway - IT'S THE HALF TERM HOLIDAY! YAY!
::does dance of no school for a week::