Congratulations to the class of 1999. You all proved more or less adequate.

Snyder ,'Chosen'


Spike's Bitches 39: Cuppa Tea, Cuppa Tea, Almost Got Shagged, Cuppa Tea...  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


-t - Jan 09, 2008 12:09:47 pm PST #1554 of 10001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

we have to do a Power Point presentation (he said "on anything" ...)

xkcd

See also: Today's goats

Fay's shirt is Too Cool.

Susan, is there a way you can link your name and the blog title some how? A .sig or something, so people will know that Susan in the comments is the blogger behind Conversations?


Fay - Jan 09, 2008 12:09:56 pm PST #1555 of 10001
"Fuck Western ideologically-motivated gender identification!" Sulu gasped, and came.

But I'm conflicted because my tourist dollars would go to a country that condones child prostitution.

....er, no. Where did you get this idea? Unless by 'condones child prostitution' you mean 'has child prostitution (in no small part due to Westerners'. Which is also true of the US and the UK.

Attitudes to sexuality and promiscuity are complicated here - on the one hand Thais tend not to strip down to bathing suits on the beach, but are more likely to stick to T shirt and shorts while swimming. And Thais consider modest clothing generally more appropriate in public.

Prostitution is not, in fact, legal. For adults or children. Which isn't to say that there isn't a thriving sex trade, or that there isn't a very real problem with the sexual exploitation of impoverished women and children - but, you know, that is also the case in my country and yours. Here it's more visible, and white men are flying in from abroad specifically to take advantage of the fact that there are lots of hot girls who would rather earn (comparatively) good money in the sex trade (and hope to snag a wealthy foreign husband) than do back-breaking manual labour for a pittance.

But your hypothetical tourist dollars would certainly not be supporting child prostitution - or at least, no more than my tourist pounds would be supporting it in the States. And by coming here as a normal tourist, putting money into the normal economy, you would be helping to counterbalance the influx of money from sex tourists.


Polter-Cow - Jan 09, 2008 12:12:36 pm PST #1556 of 10001
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!

Hey, Susan, have you heard of Red Room? I saw an article about it in the paper the other day. It looks intriguing. It's supposed to be a social networking site for writers.

And, wow, the founder/CEO wrote Huntress: Year One. Neat!


Pix - Jan 09, 2008 12:16:29 pm PST #1557 of 10001
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

Unless by 'condones child prostitution' you mean 'has child prostitution (in no small part due to Westerners'. Which is also true of the US and the UK.
I was about to post exactly this since many of the prostitutes (child and otherwise) in Thailand end up patronized by Western tourists or even smuggled to the US.


Susan W. - Jan 09, 2008 12:19:05 pm PST #1558 of 10001
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

I hadn't heard of it, P-C, but I'll check it out when I get some time. Thanks!


Laga - Jan 09, 2008 12:20:24 pm PST #1559 of 10001
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

Where did you get this idea?

Why, from the internet of course. It's my source for all half-baked, un-thoroughly-researched ideas.

Now I bet they're not exploiting elephants over there either.


§ ita § - Jan 09, 2008 12:37:20 pm PST #1560 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Change Thai to US and you get five times as many hits off that search.


EpicTangent - Jan 09, 2008 12:38:06 pm PST #1561 of 10001
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

Sigh. Why do some people have to be so dumb? Causing inconvenience and disconcertion to other people (namely me?)

Back story: My Mom loves b-day celebrations (much like myself and certain other Bitches). Her office is an absolute Middle School of favoritism and political bullshit. Mom, not being an adorable girl in her 20's or a suckup, and having a bit too much attitude for her own good, is not a Favorite.

Somehow this led to her b-day being largely ignored, even while other people with b-days the same month, or even week, were being showered with attention and free lunches (a couple of years running). Which, in turn, led to my Mother, who I love (even though she sometimes drives me up the flipping wall), to have very Hurt Feelings.

Because I didn't want to have to see my Mother on the verge of tears at another b-day dinner while relating what her office mates didn't do to commemorate her special day, last year I came up with A Plan. I decided to have flowers sent to her at work, and I emailed one of the Birthday Ringleaders to ask for the address, casually mentioning that I wanted to send flowers, for her birthday, ON THE 12TH. Birthday Ringleader gave me the address, called me a good daughter, and Took the Hint. Last year, Mom's desk was decorated and her birthday celebrated.

This year, sending flowers was not in the budget (since it looks like she's getting new tires - her idea - for her present), so I emailed one of her work buddies, mentioned that I had nudged Birthday Ringleader last year and asked whether I should do it again this year. Work buddy tells me it's a different person who's in charge, but don't worry - that she'll remind her. Work buddy instead of casually mentioning it, just forwards my email, that included comments regarding Hinting at Birthday Ringleader. New Birthday Person takes umbrage at my apparently disparaging comments re Birthday Ringleader and shoots me an email telling me how I've offended them and etc.

So then I had to send an apologetic over-explainy email back - I 'm sorry I caused offense, just a little joke, please forgive, etc.

Why couldn't Work Buddy have just sent a New Email? Why? Why? Why?

And if this gets back to my Mom, I'm going to be peeved. I feel like I'm paying a popular kid to let her sit at their lunch table - popular kids better not rat me out, dammit!

t /rant


P.M. Marc - Jan 09, 2008 12:41:48 pm PST #1562 of 10001
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Aha! Batslash T shirt!

OT3.

Looks VERY nice.

Covet.


esse - Jan 09, 2008 12:44:09 pm PST #1563 of 10001
S to the A -- using they/them pronouns!

::squinty eyes at Plei:: aren't you supposed to be in a meeting? You're supposed to use that iPhone for good, missy!