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Natter 55: It's the 55th Natter  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


tommyrot - Dec 09, 2007 3:32:14 pm PST #6397 of 10001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

We thought about the environmental issue (also the Coming Apocalypse issue) but had a second kid anyway.

Can I ask why you decided to have the kid(s) (if it's not too rude.)

I've never been in the position to decide to have kids, so the issue seems kinda' abstract to me. (I don't count my sis and her GF's kids - I see my role has "helping them out." They would have had the kids with some other dude's sperm if I had refused.)


flea - Dec 09, 2007 3:32:55 pm PST #6398 of 10001
information libertarian

I think the latter, but I'm not an economist.


tommyrot - Dec 09, 2007 3:33:43 pm PST #6399 of 10001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

Does this mean that the premiums will be set as if the government was not paying the subsidy, or that they will be set taking into account the government's expense in paying the subsidy?

I think the first one.

eta: Everyone pays the premium, and the program breaks even. The subsidy is just to help out lower income people in paying the premium.

Right?

The other way makes less sense to me....

eta2: It's the 'net of the subsidy' that's confusicating....


flea - Dec 09, 2007 3:38:55 pm PST #6400 of 10001
information libertarian

It's not too rude for me, tommy, but it's a long involved sort of answer. Short version: first child was a surprise, though we vaguely intended to have children someday. Second was planned, with factors in the decision including desire for first to have a sibling, general feelings about family size, really loving the first one and feeling we wanted another, I had an easy pregnancy and birth the first time and could hope to have the same again, plus (on the negative side) the environmental factor and the Apocalypse factor.

mr. flea really wants a third at some point; I run warm and cold on the topic. I think most people probably place their personal desires above their concern about the planet (if any). Tragedy of the Commons, yeah?


meara - Dec 09, 2007 3:42:03 pm PST #6401 of 10001

I think the idea would be like college tuition and scholarships?--if all 100 students paid $5K a semester, you'd get $500K. Or you could say tuition is $10K, and give half the students full ride scholarships. And then you'd still get $500K.

But maybe I'm mistaken.


aurelia - Dec 09, 2007 3:45:47 pm PST #6402 of 10001
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.

I have nothing to add to the current topics.

I am currently in the same room as Edward Albee.


flea - Dec 09, 2007 3:46:51 pm PST #6403 of 10001
information libertarian

Is he wearing pants?

(Also, I assume this means he is not dead, which I had sort of assumed he was, without actually thinking about it. And now to Google.)


aurelia - Dec 09, 2007 3:47:44 pm PST #6404 of 10001
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.

There are pants and no dead bodies.


Wolfram - Dec 09, 2007 3:48:17 pm PST #6405 of 10001
Visilurking

The phrase "net of the subsidy" is what throws me. See if the premium does not include the subsidy, than the program seems more fair because non-subsidized enrollees don't get penalized by the increased costs in subsidization. However, it doesn't reflect the true cost of the program either.

I think the idea would be like college tuition and scholarships?--if all 100 students paid $5K a semester, you'd get $500K. Or you could say tuition is $10K, and give half the students full ride scholarships. And then you'd still get $500K.

Right, so logically you'd say that the school estimate cost including scholarships. But I'm not sure this program is trying to do that.


Connie Neil - Dec 09, 2007 3:50:58 pm PST #6406 of 10001
brillig

I intended to have kids when I got married, but we didn't live in a place or situation that would have made kid-having anything other than a burden. Hubby kept hinting about kids, but he didn't push the point to crisis. I said that if we weren't in a situation where kids wouldn't make life difficult by the time I was thirty, then I didn't intend to have kids. By the time I hit thirty, I was pretty much convinced that kids weren't going to be part of my world. People kept saying "Oh, the Lord will provide, you could always go on welfare, that's why they make foodstamps, etc." However, there are few days that go by when I don't think Diety that I decided to forego reproduction.