I was spanked - the bad kind was a "pants down" which was hand on the bare bottom. I recall it as more humiliation than pain.
I don't spank my children and don't plan to, though I have grabbed them too roughly occasionally in the heat of the moment.
Yeah. He's my hero.
Mal ,'The Train Job'
Natter 55: It's the 55th Natter
Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
flea - Nov 05, 2007 7:45:20 am PST #503 of 10001
information libertarian
shrift - Nov 05, 2007 7:45:45 am PST #504 of 10001
"You can't put a price on the joy of not giving a shit." -Zenkitty
Does that seem weird to anyone else.
Red flag! Red flag!
msbelle - Nov 05, 2007 7:46:53 am PST #505 of 10001
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb
I was spanked, but not often. mac has been spanked with an open hand on the bottom from me, but denial of privileges (such as toys, tv, games) is much more effective. Immediate response of leaving the room works better than a spanking.
Trudy Booth - Nov 05, 2007 7:49:11 am PST #506 of 10001
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart
I hope I didn't suggest that my dad was a monster about it.
I didn't think so. It was pretty clear to me that he ratcheted down considerably from his parents and then you came down again -- I think that's pretty common with these recent generations.
I had one friend who was flat out abused and promised herself she'd never hit her children -- it wasn't that she thought hitting was always completely irrevocably wrong, it was that she knew she had no sense of what would be sane.
Kathy A - Nov 05, 2007 7:55:31 am PST #507 of 10001
We're very stretchy. - Connie Neil
My dad spanked me twice (that I remember), the last time when I was around seven and really being obnoxious. He gave me multiple warnings, but I kept pushing the subject, so he spanked me on the rear and sent me to bed early.
After that, they got really good at the "you've disappointed us" mode of punishment. I wanted their respect, so not disappointing them was always at the top of my mind.
Cass - Nov 05, 2007 7:59:58 am PST #508 of 10001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.
After that, they got really good at the "you've disappointed us" mode of punishment. I wanted their respect, so not disappointing them was always at the top of my mind.This is *still* what my dad uses. And, damn, it works.
megan walker - Nov 05, 2007 8:02:30 am PST #509 of 10001
"What kind of magical sunshine and lollipop world do you live in? Because you need to be medicated."-SFist
After that, they got really good at the "you've disappointed us" mode of punishment. I wanted their respect, so not disappointing them was always at the top of my mind.
My parents have been dead for years and this still works.
sumi - Nov 05, 2007 8:09:09 am PST #510 of 10001
Art Crawl!!!
Ooh, the Field Museum has an exhibition of Maps now through early January.
Allyson - Nov 05, 2007 8:14:23 am PST #511 of 10001
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica
My parents smacked the shit out of us. I even got a fat lip, once.
Jesse - Nov 05, 2007 8:15:04 am PST #512 of 10001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.
That Unshelved is so awesome! Except you should make them run a correction about your hair color...