There are no absolutes. No right and wrong. Haven't you learned anything working for the Powers? There are only choices.

Jasmine ,'Power Play'


Natter 55: It's the 55th Natter  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Jesse - Nov 30, 2007 5:05:59 pm PST #4894 of 10001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

The more I listen to other people the more I realize that being a renter with no car and health insurance greatly reduces my likelihood of unexpected expenses.


beth b - Nov 30, 2007 5:25:59 pm PST #4895 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

Only 1000 dollars in savings -sorry that would cause a panic attack. But all insurance bills, property taxes , come out of savings when they are due. so maybe this isn't exactly what he means by savings but there is a base level which makes me very uncomfortable to drop below. We also have a house savings account where things like paint , screws, tools, etc. for home improvement come out of .

I've been fighting CC debt for ever. 5 cards , two are zeroed. My recent decision is that I need to pay the lowest one off first. because it would give me one less, and a little more flexibility. ( I've been trying to pay off all three- but it doesn't leave me much room to manipulate things if we need new tires for a car) I think I can do the small one in 10 months. and 10 - 12 on the one after that.

I under stand what you are thinking Susan - debt ending on a date - a good thing - go for it.


Steph L. - Nov 30, 2007 5:38:54 pm PST #4896 of 10001
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Only 1000 dollars in savings -sorry that would cause a panic attack. But all insurance bills, property taxes , come out of savings when they are due. so maybe this isn't exactly what he means by savings

His plan is pretty extreme. The $1,000 isn't savings, per se, like most people think of savings; it's an emergency fund, to be used only when an unexpected/un-budgeted for expense occurs, like car repairs, medical bills, new furnace, etc., so that you don't have to put those unexpected expenses on credit.

But as to the rest of your comment, yeah -- he *does* recommend no other savings than your emergency fund, b/c his plan has you throwing every single available cent at debt.


Steph L. - Nov 30, 2007 5:39:15 pm PST #4897 of 10001
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Also, I will never be packed. Ever.


Jesse - Nov 30, 2007 5:40:35 pm PST #4898 of 10001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Sure you will, Steph! Or, at least, you'll be moved.... (My worst move ever was just up a flight of stairs, because I figured I didn't really need to pack everything. I'm still apologizing to friends.)


beth b - Nov 30, 2007 5:43:35 pm PST #4899 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

Yes you will be - but the last packed bits will be strange.

and 1000 dollars - in the bay area you'd be on the street in a month or less if you lost a job. So getting out of debt more slowly - gives you more wiggle room if things go bad.


sumi - Nov 30, 2007 5:45:32 pm PST #4900 of 10001
Art Crawl!!!

Man, when I got home from work I crashed. And felt better immediately. And then started to feel nauseous.

So, when I came out to watch FNL, I ate some crackers and now feel much better. I hope that I'm not coming down with flu. (My boss has it really badly but still came into work a couple of times this week.)

FNL: Smash at that college was hilarious. And uh-oh the feared Matt-Carlotta is a go. And I knew that Landry would confess. Knew it.


beth b - Nov 30, 2007 5:52:45 pm PST #4901 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

radical topic change

my sister sent me this link:

[link]

My sister says her dogs don't need this

worksafe rating: though I would share this with some of my co-workers, I would not share it on the public computers or send it through email.


§ ita § - Nov 30, 2007 6:29:57 pm PST #4902 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

I realized something ugly about myself: I've been looking forward to the "my turn" and was disappointed to think it might not happen.

No! It's not ugly. It's startling, but don't call yourself ugly because of it. Even if the realisation is sadmaking.

When I moved to the US I promptly got myself into debt. Which I failed to control adequately until after I moved out here.

I know I really should 401K match more, but I kinda max out my pre-tax deductions with my healthcare flexible spending account.

eta:

Is your dog in heat and humping anything it can wrap its horny little legs around?

Wait--do female dogs hump when they're in heat? That


Kat - Nov 30, 2007 6:30:59 pm PST #4903 of 10001
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

how are you feeling, ita?