You know what they say about payback? Well I'm the bitch.

Fred ,'Life of the Party'


Natter 55: It's the 55th Natter  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Gudanov - Nov 30, 2007 10:16:00 am PST #4768 of 10001
Coding and Sleeping

We are supposed to bring spouses (which I don't have).

You have to get a spouse before the party? Man, that's a lot more trouble than just brining a potluck disk.


Allyson - Nov 30, 2007 10:16:32 am PST #4769 of 10001
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

I'm staring at the invite to Allyson and Guest, and seriously, kill me.

I HAVE NO GUEST, OKAY? I AM A BIG LOSER WITH NO GUEST. I HAVE TO SIT THERE, BY MYSELF, AS AN ODD NUMBER, SCREWING UP YOUR SEATING ARRANGEMENTS.


msbelle - Nov 30, 2007 10:16:43 am PST #4770 of 10001
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

see, a day event is ACTUALLY a gift to your staff. A night event on a MONDAY, nsm.


Jesse - Nov 30, 2007 10:17:45 am PST #4771 of 10001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I started to work myself into a state about the seating arrangements at Thanksgiving, convinced that the only reason I was sitting next to my grandmother is because we were the only two grown-ups there without spouses/partners.


Sophia Brooks - Nov 30, 2007 10:18:06 am PST #4772 of 10001
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

see, a day event is ACTUALLY a gift to your staff. A night event on a MONDAY, nsm.

I agree. Our weekend extravaganzas just before Christmas are killing me, and I don't even have much family.


Jesse - Nov 30, 2007 10:18:21 am PST #4773 of 10001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

see, a day event is ACTUALLY a gift to your staff. A night event on a MONDAY, nsm.

Definitely better than a kick in the face. Although last year's day event in a BAR was more of a gift, IMO.


Miracleman - Nov 30, 2007 10:19:21 am PST #4774 of 10001
No, I don't think I will - me, quoting Captain Steve Rogers, to all of 2020

I HAVE NO GUEST, OKAY? I AM A BIG LOSER WITH NO GUEST. I HAVE TO SIT THERE, BY MYSELF, AS AN ODD NUMBER, SCREWING UP YOUR SEATING ARRANGEMENTS.

Bring a homeless guy. Charitable and funny.


Sophia Brooks - Nov 30, 2007 10:19:59 am PST #4775 of 10001
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

convinced that the only reason I was sitting next to my grandmother is because we were the only two grown-ups there without spouses/partners.

I was once at a wedding reception seated at a table that was ALL single people without dates. Which would have been handy if everyone else waan't related, and I wasn't really interested in hooking up at my friend's brother's wedding, with my friends cousins.


sarameg - Nov 30, 2007 10:21:43 am PST #4776 of 10001

Ours is during the day. And charging it to an job code is frowned on. And there is booze. About 3/4 of the group can use partial vacation days. The rest can't. I make myself seen and then leave.

Cute little bird outside the window. Very wee and round like a golfball.

Oh& I saw a racoon the other might on the way home. Which isn't remarkable except it climbed out of the gutter on a very busy street, looked around and toddled back in. It was strange.


msbelle - Nov 30, 2007 10:22:01 am PST #4777 of 10001
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

huh, I have never been bothered by plus ones on invites of any kind. I also can't imagine bringing a BF to a wedding or an office event if they did not already know the people.