Dawn: I think a date should be in a real fancy restaurant, then champagne at a night club with a floor show, then ballroom dancing. Joyce: Unfortunately, we're not dating in a movie from the thirties.

'Get It Done'


Natter 55: It's the 55th Natter  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


beekaytee - Nov 20, 2007 10:37:24 am PST #3314 of 10001
Compassionately intolerant

I really don't have the experience to say that this this true or not. Anyone else?

I have actually found this to be true.

I can count on one hand the number of people I've been able to truly 'get down to it' with in an impassioned debate that does not eventually turn into something personal.

And frankly, the numbers of times in any given week I have to give the 'but what that person said couldn't possibly be about YOU" speech to my clients cannot be counted.

When I've traveled, sitting around the table talking about the news of the day was such a joy in England, Scotland and Denmark...it showed in sharp contrast just why we 'joke' about the forbidden topics in 'polite' conversation in this country. Politics, religion, money and sex.

It feels to me as if we are so afraid of the impact of other people's views of ourselves that we'll go to any length to avoid opening ourselves up. The sad fact is, at least in with the work I've done with clients, that the imaginating of what someone else thinks about you is much, much worse than the actual fact.


tommyrot - Nov 20, 2007 10:42:19 am PST #3315 of 10001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

This is really gross for an x-ray: [link]

“Young male was holding a homemade explosive device. The fuse of the device was lit, and the patient was unable to throw it away before it detonated.”


Typo Boy - Nov 20, 2007 10:46:08 am PST #3316 of 10001
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.

Yeah, I've found the same. We really have trouble with friendly arguments around politics in this country.


Jesse - Nov 20, 2007 10:49:52 am PST #3317 of 10001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

“yes, but that’s just arrant nonsense, isn’t it? It doesn’t make sense. It’s self-contradictory.”

That doesn't sound friendly to me, no matter the topic. Especially when I imagine it in an English accent!

We don't talk about politics in my family, after my grandmother went on this whole rant about GWB and how could anyone vote for him and who are these people, and my aunt finally said that "these people" was her, because she had voted for him.


beekaytee - Nov 20, 2007 10:52:27 am PST #3318 of 10001
Compassionately intolerant

day-um...that xray needs to be optioned to CSI or something.

Yeah, I've found the same. We really have trouble with friendly arguments around politics in this country.

As a result, I think we really lose out on some terrific learning/understanding opportunities.


Gudanov - Nov 20, 2007 10:54:24 am PST #3319 of 10001
Coding and Sleeping

I'm terrible at debating, I want to make sure that what I say is accurate so when someone throws out the "fact" that say global warming isn't really happening, I don't really want to respond unless I can cite something.


§ ita § - Nov 20, 2007 10:55:01 am PST #3320 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Speaking of disturbing x-rays.

Technically it's not work safe, but it actually is. Or vice versa.


tommyrot - Nov 20, 2007 10:58:48 am PST #3321 of 10001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

Speaking of disturbing x-rays.

What's that inside? A motor? Is that a Mr. Squirmy?


JZ - Nov 20, 2007 10:58:55 am PST #3322 of 10001
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

Technically it's not work safe, but it actually is. Or vice versa.

This is possibly the most un-reassuring reassurance I've ever seen.


tommyrot - Nov 20, 2007 11:01:07 am PST #3323 of 10001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

This one isn't as gross, but the description provides... useful knowledge: [link]

Patient was a front seat passenger in a car and had right foot on the portion of the dash where the airbag deploys. The car was involved in a low speed (25mph) crash. The passenger airbag deployed, tearing the foot from the tibia and grossly dislocating the talus. Driver was uninjured.

I often put my feet up on the dash before I saw this case. Not anymore!