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Spike's Bitches 38: Well, This Is Just...Neat.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


vw bug - Dec 19, 2007 5:54:26 am PST #9045 of 10002
Mostly lurking...

I'm uncomfortable with the notion that you have to earn the right to disbelief, or to discussing that disbelief and having it taken seriously.

I am uncomfortable with the assumption that this is what Hil (or those agreeing with Hil) means, especially when she doesn't seem to be here right now to clarify.

I have a great amount of respect for people's religious or non-religious beliefs, no matter how they got there. And I don't (usually...I can't remember situations where I may have, but I'm not going to say they don't exist or haven't existed in the past) get into discussions with people about my religious beliefs unless they initiate the discussion. And, if someone says they just don't believe in a higher power, I don't try to convince them otherwise, no matter their reasoning. And usually things just drop there.

This is a really touchy subject, clearly for a lot of people, but I feel like we're going to reach kerfuffle status very quickly if we try to continue to make distinctions about this topic.

Walking away now.


WindSparrow - Dec 19, 2007 5:58:04 am PST #9046 of 10002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

WindSparrow, that behavior is really bizarre!

I know! I can't figure out if she was offended that I noticed there was a glitch but not a serious one, or if she totally mis-read what I had written. That, of course, is a possibility because I had often in the past wondered if she was bothering to read the notebook at all. So if she is reading but her reading comprehension is lacking, I suppose that would explain a few things. But she must be going through life assuming that whatever she does not understand is unpleasant. Or she so truly believes that anything we bother to write must be unpleasant that she doesn't bother to really understand it. Her attitude is definitely ringing warning bells - it seems very similar to the kind of paranoia sometimes seen in addicts, even when they are not presently high.


brenda m - Dec 19, 2007 6:01:48 am PST #9047 of 10002
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I am uncomfortable with the assumption that this is what Hil (or those agreeing with Hil) means, especially when she doesn't seem to be here right now to clarify.

VW, I don't think anyone here is piling on Hil. But the article that is spurring this discussion absolutely was saying things like that, among other things, and in far more judgmental terms.

(There was an article about theology and atheism. Thus, the "I don't need to know anything at all about religion to know that it's all nonsense" people are out in force. My thought -- English needs an equivalent word to the Hebrew "apikoros." It means someone who's studied the law and rejected it, as opposed to someone who isn't religious just because they've never learned what it means. Having only the word "atheist" to describe both of those people makes for circular discussions.)

That said, I do think there's a notion in here that some people can justify their atheism and others can't. I do not think Hil, or anyone else here, was throwing stones - but I do think the implication is there, and it bothers me.


vw bug - Dec 19, 2007 6:07:40 am PST #9048 of 10002
Mostly lurking...

VW, I don't think anyone here is piling on Hil. But the article that is spurring this discussion absolutely was saying things like that, and in far more judgmental terms.

Ok. Thank you for clarifying that. I didn't read the article. I suppose I should have.

That said, I do think there's a notion in here that some people can justify their atheism and others can't. I do not think Hil, or anyone else here, was throwing stones - but I do think the implication is there, and it bothers me.

I hope you haven't gotten that impression from me. If so, I'm very sorry, because it is not at all how I feel. I do have a certain, different kind of respect for people who learn everything then walk away...probably partially because I can't seem to do it. But that doesn't mean I don't respect those who came to their own conclusions in different ways.


Jessica - Dec 19, 2007 6:10:22 am PST #9049 of 10002
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

Again, Brenda is me. I'm not so much reacting to Hil as this attitude from the article:

My chief objection to the new atheists is that they are almost completely ignorant of what's going on in the world of theology. They talk about the most fundamentalist and extremist versions of faith, and they hold these up as though they're the normative, central core of faith. And they miss so many things. They miss the moral core of Judaism and Christianity -- the theme of social justice, which takes those who are marginalized and brings them to the center of society.

...and it goes on like that. Blah blah belief in God is clearly the default and correct position, and anyone who doesn't believe in a higher power is just mooching off the moral value systems created by those who do, and he hates us and we have stupid hair.

The whole interview is so obnoxiously condescending it makes me want to puke.

[eta - It would probably help to link to the article in question]


Jars - Dec 19, 2007 6:12:06 am PST #9050 of 10002

The whole interview is so obnoxiously condescending it makes me want to puke.

This. The bit about how atheists can't justify having hope made my eyes roll to the point of perpetual motion.


vw bug - Dec 19, 2007 6:27:06 am PST #9051 of 10002
Mostly lurking...

This. The bit about how atheists can't justify having hope made my eyes roll to the point of perpetual motion.

Oh, dear.

From the part of the article that Jessica linked to...

They talk about the most fundamentalist and extremist versions of faith, and they hold these up as though they're the normative, central core of faith. And they miss so many things. They miss the moral core of Judaism and Christianity -- the theme of social justice, which takes those who are marginalized and brings them to the center of society.

Well, huh. I wonder why they do that? (that was my best sarcastic tone.) That's almost laughable. And if there was the slightest bit of argument in that position, I'd actually argue it the other way--it's the fundamentalist's fault, not the atheists.

Semi-related, my students final paper was a research paper on a moral or ethical dilemma. Most of them didn't understand those terms, so we got out the dictionary, searched online, etc., but I tended to have to explain to them where different "moral codes" come from. They could easily say that religion was one of them, but often couldn't come up with anything else. Ugh. Just ugh.

And, you know, looking at that article, that's actually someone I wish I could like. I happen to believe in both creation and evolution, but ick. Just ick. Talk about taking 100 steps back.


Laura - Dec 19, 2007 6:27:19 am PST #9052 of 10002
Our wings are not tired.

The Buffistas give me hope!


Emily - Dec 19, 2007 6:29:22 am PST #9053 of 10002
"In the equation E = mc⬧, c⬧ is a pretty big honking number." - Scola

I actually didn't find it that insulting, because he was referring to people who are writing books about religion and the religious, and I think they do have an obligation to know what they're talking about. As for the rest of it... well, I can understand how, if your faith is the foundation for your hope, you assume they're linked for everyone. Which I guess means I ended up rolling my eyes, getting bored, and clicking away.


Nora Deirdre - Dec 19, 2007 6:32:03 am PST #9054 of 10002
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

I am so tired. I hope that belly dancing gets me going this afternoon. I've missed the first 2 classes but since I've taken with this instructor before I think I should be OK.