I bet WS's compote would be delish with pork chops or any roast beast.

Hmm, we do in fact have some lovely pork steaks that we cooked up last night before bed. Not that we were hungry after the nice fish stir-fry I'd made for supper, but they needed to be cooked before it was too late. So, perhaps I'll get some more potatoes and rutabaga to mash up and go with this.

That's if I bother to set foot outside the house today.

So I've poured 3 portions of the compote into freezer bags for future use. That leaves about a cup of it for immediate use. Plus I started some laundry. Gosh I feel so virtuous.

Being virtuous is so exhausting, I think I'll take a nap.

Fay, what's an "academic daughter"?

Sorry, my bad - it's a St Andrews University phrase. The idea is that when you arrive as a wee fresher, you get 'adopted' by an Academic Mother and an Academic Father from the 3rd or 4th year. They take you under their wing and introduce you to their mates, act as a sort of mentor

Ah, I get it. We called them "Big sisters" (or brothers), which eliminates (in my mind) a lot of the creepy Oedipal/Electracal undertones.

"Big sisters" (or brothers)

I dunno, these designators in the greek system at my university were made of ick. A few frat guys took it seriously and were kind/helpful to their 'lil sises' but mostly, it was a system of putative slavery...usually involving sex.

My straight-laced, Job's Daughter roommate asked me to rush with her...I lasted a total of 10 minutes into the written application. She ended up a drugged out waistoid who didn't even recognize me the last time I saw her.

No offense to any happily Greek participants. At my school it was just sanctioned cruelty and debasement...to both sexes.

A few frat guys took it seriously and were kind/helpful to their 'lil sises' but mostly, it was a system of putative slavery...usually involving sex.

Wow. I wouldn't have thought doing it across gender lines was a great idea.

No offense to any happily Greek participants. At my school it was just sanctioned cruelty and debasement...to both sexes.

I'm quite firmly anti-Greek, based on being non-Greek at a school where about 60% of the student body was Greek, and where all the student organizations (except the newspaper) were run by Greeks. (Is it any shock I was on the staff of the paper?)

(Which is to say, I didn't mean fraternity/sorority "big sisters/brothers" -- I just meant the sort who are meant to help you acclimate to college, give advice, and perhaps buy you a beer but not date-rape you.)

Wow. I wouldn't have thought doing it across gender lines was a great idea.

I honestly don't recall same-sex support relationships being mentioned. I suppose there must have been, but I only recall the official/paid housemother taking that role.

I'm quite firmly anti-Greek, based on being non-Greek at a school where about 60% of the student body was Greek, and where all the student organizations (except the newspaper) were run by Greeks. (Is it any shock I was on the staff of the paper?)

Jeez, Steph. I think you might actually BE me. t checks mirror Nope, you are definitely cuter, so phew...no body sharing going on here...but the like minds? Eerie

(Which is to say, I didn't mean fraternity/sorority "big sisters/brothers" -- I just meant the sort who are meant to help you acclimate to college, give advice, and perhaps buy you a beer but not date-rape you.)

Ah. I was actually this at my school. HS seniors would come for campus visits and stay with me. My emphasis on the 'touch one of my girls and I'll cut you' portion of the job became legend.

Having been quite happy as a member of a sorority during college, my experience was a good one in having a big sister and being one to a new member. Mentor relationships were assigned within the organization, so all mentors/mentees were female.

Some fraternities had official "little sister" components, but if we looked down our nose at them it was because those women weren't full members of the organization, not because they were selling themselves into slavery, sexual or otherwise.

YGreekExperienceMV, but mine put me in touch with a group of fantastically smart women I might have missed out on getting to know on an otherwise huge campus.

I had only ever heard of the big brother/little sister thing as a Greek tradition, and it always squicked me. Although once I did read a novel about a girls' private school where New Girls were taken under the wing of Old Girls.

It's snowing quite ferociously here. Oh yay.