I tell you I have this theory. It goes where, you're the one who's not my sister. Cuz mom adopted you from a shoe box full of baby howler monkeys, and never told you cuz it could hurt your delicate baby feelings.

Dawn ,'Selfless'


Spike's Bitches 38: Well, This Is Just...Neat.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


vw bug - Nov 16, 2007 4:03:57 pm PST #4450 of 10002
Mostly lurking...

Damn! Maybe she is psychic. The plane just showed up.


DCJensen - Nov 16, 2007 4:10:34 pm PST #4451 of 10002
All is well that ends in pizza.

Hopefully they take more than 10 minutes to clean it before the next flight...

ION, The big Mall of America Electronics recycling free-for-all has halted 19 hours in.

86 trucks were filled.

They barely got into the second day of the three day event when they ran out of room.


Susan W. - Nov 16, 2007 4:55:54 pm PST #4452 of 10002
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

{{{Aimee}}}

Woohoo, JZ!

~ma to Kristin.

You know that writers' loop with the oh-so-superior Englishwoman from Wednesday? I successfully resisted the urge to reply that time, but I just succumbed to temptation on a new issue. Different person this time. Someone had brought up that thread in historical fiction where women disguise themselves as men to fight in the army or navy. A poster said that was overdone. I replied that overdone was in the eye of the beholder, because I adore that kind of story.

Her reply? Among other things, that "adore" seemed like a terribly gushy term, and that to her that type of story is generally annoying and at best silly.

Condescending bitch.

But I didn't say that. I said that as a writer I wasn't ashamed to adore stories, and that I hoped once I was published readers adored my books. I also said that there were publishing trends whose reader appeal left me baffled, including some I knew that were popular with many on the list, but that I didn't go around calling them annoying and silly because I didn't like to insult other people's tastes.

Sigh. I really had high hopes for this group as something that would offer support and feedback for the type of book I'm writing now. Now I'm thinking I should hit unsubscribe before I actually do call someone on the list a condescending bitch.


Fay - Nov 16, 2007 5:06:14 pm PST #4453 of 10002
"Fuck Western ideologically-motivated gender identification!" Sulu gasped, and came.

to her that type of story is generally annoying and at best silly.

While it's certainly far more prevalent as a literary trope than it has ever been as an actual phenomenon, the fact remains that throughout the ages this has happened. Not frequently, no, but it's not some cracktastic invention. There's plenty of documentation. We're not talking MPreg here.

Brava, though, with the courteous response. It has to be said that the list doesn't sound like the most positive of environments - what are the good points about it?


Susan W. - Nov 16, 2007 5:20:55 pm PST #4454 of 10002
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

Well, the rest of her post said her issue is that she thinks it feeds into the idea that it's better to be a boy--that all girls must deep down fantasize about living a boy's life. And the rest of my reply was that in my upbringing in a deeply conservative, traditional area, I'd grown up with pressure to be hyper-feminine, and that was never a comfortable fit for me, because I always loved things girls weren't "supposed" to like sports, science, and even military history. (I was deeply into military history as a child, and then managed to suppress it from adolescence until a few years ago.) So I liked books where girls and women did things I was interested in.

It has to be said that the list doesn't sound like the most positive of environments - what are the good points about it?

The fact that it's devoted to historical fiction, mostly, and as such can offer advice and feedback in areas I can't necessarily get from a romance group. But the advice hasn't been as helpful as I'd hoped, largely because the regulars seem more interested in pedantry than telling good stories that readers will enjoy. (And when I find a group too pedantic, that's saying something!) Really, what I'd like to find is a good fantasy group, since even a non-magical alternate history like mine fits under that part of the publishing umbrella. SFWA doesn't accept unpublished members, but maybe I could find a good online group with a more open policy.


Fay - Nov 16, 2007 5:33:48 pm PST #4455 of 10002
"Fuck Western ideologically-motivated gender identification!" Sulu gasped, and came.

Hmm - I didn't realise it was Alternate History you were working on.

Perhaps you could ask Delia Sherman and/or Ellen Kushner for suggestions? They've both got Live Journals, and they seem lovely. (I realise that Swordspoint et al have the emphasis more on the 'Alternate' than on the History, but I think Delia's pretty much a History Geek herself.) They're also all over the notion of blending genres and supporting artists who don't want to be pigeonholed.

(Plus, hey, The Privelege of the Sword is ALL over the notion of how gender impacts upon freedom, complete with swashbuckling, crossdressing and hot sex.)


Polter-Cow - Nov 16, 2007 5:34:41 pm PST #4456 of 10002
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!

I think I may have broken a testicle while opening spaghetti sauce.


Fay - Nov 16, 2007 5:37:07 pm PST #4457 of 10002
"Fuck Western ideologically-motivated gender identification!" Sulu gasped, and came.

!!!

Um. PC, you should seriously think about using your hands next time.


Polter-Cow - Nov 16, 2007 5:40:49 pm PST #4458 of 10002
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!

My left arm isn't strong enough.


Fay - Nov 16, 2007 5:45:24 pm PST #4459 of 10002
"Fuck Western ideologically-motivated gender identification!" Sulu gasped, and came.

Well, okay.

...

...

it's about this point in the conversation that somebody ought to be bandying around the phrase 'clever dick', yes?

And here I was thinking that after a year and a bit in Bangkok I was past being surprised by the impressive things people can apparently do with their genitals.