How've you been pronouncing it?
Like it was an English word, sam-hain. I'm told that the middle consonant is more of a w sound. I think I'm going to avoid ever saying it outloud because I will not be able to remember what is correct, ever.
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How've you been pronouncing it?
Like it was an English word, sam-hain. I'm told that the middle consonant is more of a w sound. I think I'm going to avoid ever saying it outloud because I will not be able to remember what is correct, ever.
Yeah, it's pretty much Sow (to rhyme with cow) - in. In Irish the last syllable of words tends to get deadened a bit, so it sounds a bit like sow-un too. Yeah, a cross between sow-in and sow-un.
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Happy Birthday, Daniel!
It's house buying day and I have to go to the bank.
Happy House Buying Day, Sparky!
Jilli, I just directed my favorite little baby-goth to your website. If her mom finds out, I am so dead. Her mom is afraid that she's emo and dangerously dark, but this girl is truly awesome and healthy and well-adjusted. (She asked today if I thought thay she could get away with wearing a petticoat under her school uniform. I said no, but I couldn't help giggling sympathetically.)
I'd also want to try to make her read the bleeding books before setting out to burn them
me too. I am struggling with my SMASH! reflex.
She's a teenager, right?
nope. She's 25. Has amazing skills with kids, is an EMT, part time.
Especially since this is someone Iris actually likes and is happy with, which ought to be worth its weight in gold. Sending an email like that in the first place, let alone cc'ing people she doesn't know that well and whose beliefs she can't begin to guess at, speaks poorly for (at least some aspects of) her judgment.
truth. but the first thing that hit my brain upon reading was - You Will Step Away From My Child NOW. Even though she has not spoken like this to us at any time, and, as Iris is a complete parrot, we have pretty good reason to expect that she's not (yet) trying to 'save' anyone here. Besides, if she hasn't taken a look at my bookshelves yet (then she's nothing like me)... and if she has, she hasn't tried to burn any of my books because I would sense it immediately. There's been one other case where she's forwarded an email, about cellphones and driving, and in that case, she was completely factually off base. It seems as if she's just passing on what she gets. With. No. Filter.
She's babysitting one evening a month for us - so I have some time to think about it and figure out a way to have a face-to-face conversation about, you know, freedom. and, um. Mindfulness. Not to mention .... (ok, yah - here I go, with the losing of a babysitter)
If her mom finds out, I am so dead.
If her mom finds out, she should read the website herself! She'd find considerable comfort there for the I'm-worried-that-my-child-is-too-emo syndrome!
Also, yay babygoth and yay you for being that teacher we all needed (and were sometimes lucky enough to have) in High School!
serial: oh my god I've committed exclamation points
She probably got it as a forward, skimmed it briefly, and went "yeah!" and forwarded it without a whole lot of thought. (I have found this to be the history of most mass-forwards).
A polite note along the lines of "I was pretty offended by X, Y, Z, in that email" might let her see the light and you keep the sitter.
(Though I'd be tempted to "reply all" and blast her.)
I'm less sympathetic now that I know she's 25. My only thought then would be that if you do decide to say something to her about it, I might say somehting along the lines of "even if this was what you really feel, it's presumptive to assume that everyone you know feels the same, it upset me to receive that email, and it's not good business if you want to keep your clients."