Closet celibates? No. More like accidental celibate.
Yeah, if anyone else were in my closet right now I'd surely be fucking him.
This must be what going mad feels like.
Simon ,'Jaynestown'
Spike's Bitches 37: You take the killing for granted.
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Trudy Booth - Sep 25, 2007 11:06:02 am PDT #6952 of 10001
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart
omnis_audis - Sep 25, 2007 11:06:23 am PDT #6953 of 10001
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir
I might mention that if they wanted the slave to do the dishes, that would be okay with me.
omg, that made me truly LOL. bad. I'm not here. I'm setting up a sound system in a room with no internet connection.
Fred Pete - Sep 25, 2007 11:06:34 am PDT #6954 of 10001
Ann, that's a ferret.
I think the better analogy with lesbian would be to welcome the partner/slave to family gatherings. However, the family really doesn't need to see the sex toys, regardless of what they are.
Edit: JZ, I think we're agreeing. At least to the extent of separating the fact of the relationship from the gory details. Again, not an expert on such things, but I assume there are more subtle ways for the slave to be submissive in public.
omnis_audis - Sep 25, 2007 11:07:03 am PDT #6955 of 10001
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir
Yeah, if anyone else were in my closet right now I'd surely be fucking him.
um. Address please?
Steph L. - Sep 25, 2007 11:08:51 am PDT #6956 of 10001
I look more rad than Lutheranism
Though I'd have less sympathy for the family if slave had gone in "civvies" as an ordinary guest. (Or are such things not done in the master-slave world? I'm no expert.)
Being kinky is never an excuse for poor manners. And so if one's family/friends/co-workers either don't know about your kink, or don't want to be exposed to it, OR if you prefer to keep it on the QT around family and co-workers and vanilla friends, then everybody wears civvies, and it's all good.
I do know some female slaves whose "collars" are really beautiful metal necklaces, so they can wear them with anything, in any situation, and it just looks like jewellry.
Steph L. - Sep 25, 2007 11:12:13 am PDT #6957 of 10001
I look more rad than Lutheranism
You know what? I am totally in lecture/overshare mode today, and I really didn't mean to be.
Apologies to anyone who's been cringing at this conversation but has been too polite to tell me to shut the hell up.
Aims - Sep 25, 2007 11:13:17 am PDT #6958 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.
The lack of FSF this year and the talk of kink makes me want to go back and look at my "essay" on the fair from last year and update it to reflect my changing feelings on things. Although, apart from a better understanding of pony play, the only thing that has changed is the number of "marital aids" that I own has doubled.
Aims - Sep 25, 2007 11:14:19 am PDT #6959 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.
Apologies to anyone who's been cringing at this conversation but has been too polite to tell me to shut the hell up.
I will never. Because you inspire me to get over my own hang-ups re: sex (one day) and become more accepting of myself and what I like.
JZ - Sep 25, 2007 11:14:33 am PDT #6960 of 10001
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.
Being kinky is never an excuse for poor manners.
Now I'm wondering what the reading market would be for a Kinky Charm School website.
Steph L. - Sep 25, 2007 11:15:11 am PDT #6961 of 10001
I look more rad than Lutheranism
Although, apart from a better understanding of pony play
Happy to help. [winky emoticon would go here if I were inclined that way]