Lorne ,'Time Bomb'
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I go by Drew now, but was Andrew up until about 10 years ago. It wasn't even a conscious thing that I did, it was friends that just started calling me Drew, and then as I moved around for school the folks that called me Drew instead of Andrew were in the majority. It stuck to the point that now almost everyone I know only knows my name as Drew and are a bit surprised when someone from my past calls me Andrew.
I also spent a year in undergrad going by my middle name, Spencer.
trying to picture you as spencer...
are you for hire?
I was always impressed by people who managed to change their names--I knew a girl in elementary school who was Beth, and we went to different middle schools. By the time we went to the same high school, she was Liz. I was so jealous of having multiple nicknames to choose from!
I decided when I went to college, I'd go by my middle name (or, a diminutive of it--Catie, for Catherine). Because I didn't know anyone there, so it was all in how I introduced myself, right?
Yeah, and then I introduced myself to the first fifty peopel I met as my real name, and went "Doh!"
Ah well.
My middle name is John. Just John. Pretty boring.
In high school my nickname was Tommy John.
Wait--is women dropping their middle name what usually happens if you keep your last name and take his?
How odd, if so. I mean...I guess it's one of those things that's normal if you knew the whole time but looks strange in isolation when you're 38.
I just figured you'd have the same first and middle names, and just more surnames. Then again, my mother is named Norma Delores Delrio MaidenName MarriedName. Losing names is not in our family tradition unless you're running away from it. Just ask Wentworth Harry Hugent Sylvester Constantine George Augustus St Elmer Mundle.
Isn't it? If not maybe that explains why they were so upset. Hee.
are you for hire?
You couldn't afford me.
I am now finding that hyphenating is considered outre or weird most of the time.
It's a bitch to fit onto a personnel label. Consequently, I hate hyphenated names, and tend to mutter "I don't care about your love and commitment! Choose something shorter!"
But that's only when I'm making labels. Sometimes I do push for hiring Koreans though, simply on the basis of short surnames.
I didn't drop my middle name, I'm still legally FirstName MiddleName Last-LastName, but I don't include it in my signature.