I'm so sorry David. Fuck cancer!!
Honestly, you meet the most appalling sort of people....
Giles ,'Chosen'
Spike's Bitches 37: You take the killing for granted.
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Glamcookie - Aug 31, 2007 5:50:28 am PDT #3639 of 10001
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister
Glamcookie - Aug 31, 2007 5:52:02 am PDT #3640 of 10001
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister
Ellie is adorable, as is her new outfit!
sj - Aug 31, 2007 5:59:23 am PDT #3641 of 10001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
Ellie is an adorable big girl!
Hec, I'm still vibing the best for Karen. She's lucky to have your suppport.
JZ, best of luck finding a job that is a perfect fit for you.
meara - Aug 31, 2007 6:02:46 am PDT #3642 of 10001
Fuck cancer indeed!
They've told her, but she really doesn't understand the implications. Which is fine. I know I was when my mother had her first bout of cancer.
Yeah, I'm very glad i was only about 8 when my mom had cancer, I totally didn't get it. Just "Hey, mom's sick, and cool, lots of people are bringing us casseroles for dinner!"
Susan W. - Aug 31, 2007 6:19:00 am PDT #3643 of 10001
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights
Ellie is so cute and so big!
Yay for Owen! Cashmere, FWIW, what really worked with Annabel was, of all things, buying her a portable potty seat with the Backyardigans characters on it. I'd gotten it just so we could have something to use while traveling, at baseball games, etc. But she was SO excited about her new seat that she wanted to use it all the time, even at home, and she went from kinda-sorta trained to almost perfect overnight.
Fred Pete - Aug 31, 2007 6:30:15 am PDT #3644 of 10001
Ann, that's a ferret.
David, the St. Francis Center, where I did some of my counseling training, was founded on this very thing. Father Wendt, an ambitious young priest, tried just a little too hard to 'do good' for the people he was drawn to serve until a wise woman he was visiting said something along the lines of...'If you want to help me, shut the hell up and rub my feet.'
I'm not familiar with the St. Francis Center, but I have to agree with that philosophy. The patient is the best source of what will help the patient.
Our experience with Hubs's mother when she had her chemo lines up with what Ginger said. We found it wise to wink at dietary restrictions now and then (Hubs's mother was diabetic) in the interest of keeping her energy up.
And, as I mentioned earlier, don't forget that Karen's family also needs care.
Cashmere - Aug 31, 2007 6:33:15 am PDT #3645 of 10001
Now tagless for your comfort.
Stephanie, that outfit is ADORABLE. She's such a gorgeous little girl.
Yay for Owen! Cashmere, FWIW, what really worked with Annabel was, of all things, buying her a portable potty seat with the Backyardigans characters on it. I'd gotten it just so we could have something to use while traveling, at baseball games, etc. But she was SO excited about her new seat that she wanted to use it all the time, even at home, and she went from kinda-sorta trained to almost perfect overnight.
I think when it clicks, it clicks. I was just so relieved (sorry for the pun). But I had built up a lot of stress and worry about it that that couple ounces of yellow liquid being where it was supposed to be made me want to throw a party.
Ginger, your insight is helpful and encouraging. My friend from high school had her six month appointment after her lumpectomy and she's cancer free. My sister saw her a few weeks ago and she's doing very well. Knowing someone that made it through a rough diagnosis is comforting.
hippocampus - Aug 31, 2007 6:36:15 am PDT #3646 of 10001
not your mom's socks.
sparky, d - insent.
Ginger, reading that made me want to give you a huge cheer & a hug. Because you wrote it so beautifully... can't explain it.
Hurray for Owen. And for Cashmere. That's awesome.
eta: to keep me from looking like a super-sap
Glamcookie - Aug 31, 2007 6:39:03 am PDT #3647 of 10001
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister
Kiddies what are related to me!
Niecey with Hello Kitty floatie: [link]
Niecey on the beach: [link]
Nephew walking on the beach: [link]
Niece and pseudo-niece: [link]
Another pseudo-niece (my cousin's daughter) on her b-day: [link]
Same sweet girl: [link]
Kathy A - Aug 31, 2007 6:40:34 am PDT #3648 of 10001
We're very stretchy. - Connie Neil
Yeah, I'm very glad i was only about 8 when my mom had cancer, I totally didn't get it. Just "Hey, mom's sick, and cool, lots of people are bringing us casseroles for dinner!"
When my mom almost died from Stevens-Johnson Syndrome when I was 12, my (older) brother and sister, as well as my father, really shielded me from how very sick she was. I was only taken to see her in the hospital in the beginning, before they knew how bad she was going to get, and then at what they thought would be the end, when she in her fifth day of 105+ temp. But, they didn't tell me I was there to say goodbye, just that I was there to see Mom. When the temp broke a few days later and it was obvious she was going to recover (slowly), I was taken to see her much more often. It really wasn't until a year later that it finally occurred to me why I was taken to see her when she was so sick.