Wild monkey love or tender Sarah McLachlan love?

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Bureaucracy 4: Like Job. No, really, just like Job

A thread to discuss naming threads, board policy, new thread suggestions, and anything else that has to do with board administration and maintenance. Guaranteed to include lively debate and polls. Natter discouraged, but not deleted.

Current Stompy Feet: Jon B, P.M. Marcontell, Liese S., amych, msbelle, shrift, Dana, Laura

Stompy Emerita: ita, DXMachina


msbelle - May 10, 2008 7:47:29 pm PDT #2803 of 6786
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

the proliferation discussion is no different (aside from possibly its endurance) than many other things the board and the people on it (and that group changes over time, trust on that) discuss that gets heated. Compassion is not breaking down.

I am so confused by this whole emotional framing of discussion basically about "can't we all just get along". Probably not, to be honest. But what we discuss here and decisions we make here are not life and death and as I know I have said before, I doubt anyone's life would be the worse for taking extended time way from the board. perspective.


§ ita § - May 10, 2008 7:53:54 pm PDT #2804 of 6786
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Or is, you know, the definition of proliferation.

Which is exactly why requests for making it verboten during discussions of same confuse me. Unless it was a request for splitting the discussion into two locations, which confuses me for different reasons.

Site going down in seven, peeps.


Laga - May 10, 2008 7:54:33 pm PDT #2805 of 6786
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

I think the difference is that there is no new way to frame the argument. People who feel strongly one way or the other shall never be swayed.


msbelle - May 10, 2008 7:59:37 pm PDT #2806 of 6786
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

see also: cilantro, muffalettos (sp?), fork holding, seatbelts, quality of various seasons of Buffy, allowing new people to register, voting (see also preferential)......

Can I request a hold on all those topics for the next decade, por favor.


Steph L. - May 10, 2008 8:01:04 pm PDT #2807 of 6786
I look more rad than Lutheranism

I think the difference is that there is no new way to frame the argument.

That doesn't really matter, though.

I'm sorry to be so blunt, but even if there's no new way to frame the anti-proliferation position, that doesn't mean that the anti-proliferationistas should be forbidden from discussing it, or shunted into a non-related thread just because some people don't like that discussion.


billytea - May 10, 2008 8:04:56 pm PDT #2808 of 6786
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

Count me as opposed to limits on discussion. On the specific issue of thread proliferation, I think limiting discussion would carry a systemic bias against the anti-lifs. More generally, whether or not it sometimes seems futile to some people, we've opted for open discussion to allow any relevant points or positions to be aired, and I think it's too hard to prejudge what's relevant to a particular issue.

I also think that it's a shame that the discussion generates acrimony, but I feel that since we decide things with voting system that treats all users equally, we probably can't completely avoid that.


msbelle - May 10, 2008 8:27:12 pm PDT #2809 of 6786
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

Oh was that an opening for tiered or weighted voting? Let's discuss that.


Kat - May 10, 2008 8:38:39 pm PDT #2810 of 6786
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

Or preferential voting?

I think I am okay with preferential voting now.


Kevin - May 11, 2008 1:55:35 am PDT #2811 of 6786
Never fall in love with somebody you actually love.

Just to weigh in on the proliferation argument for a second - when the Gaming thread was proposed, there was a long disagreement about how splitting gaming off into another topic divides the community.

Here's what's happened for me - I've met new people on the site I've never spoken to before, I've got a few of them on my Xbox Live account now, and we actually chat and play games. It's added to the community experience I've had here. Really.


billytea - May 11, 2008 3:07:47 am PDT #2812 of 6786
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

Oh was that an opening for tiered or weighted voting? Let's discuss that.

Hee. No, I'm good with the voting system we have. I think we have too many people here for bullshit consensus to be workable, but not so many we'd need any sort of representative system.

I think I am okay with preferential voting now.

Walk towards the light!