Ah, yes, of course. The gypsies, they gave you your soul. The gypsies are filthy people. Ptui! We shall speak of them no more.

Ilona Costa Bianchi ,'The Girl in Question'


Spike's Bitches 35: We Got a History  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


JZ - May 01, 2007 4:59:07 am PDT #7357 of 10003
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

Oh, Aileen, I'm so sorry. Peace to him, and to everyone whose lives he's touched.


Ailleann - May 01, 2007 4:59:08 am PDT #7358 of 10003
vanguard of the socialist Hollywood liberal homosexualist agenda

Thanks. {{}}

Sometimes the grief of others is so much harder to handle than your own. J is not the type to cry, and it just breaks me open when she does. Trying to be strong is hard.


Steph L. - May 01, 2007 5:00:07 am PDT #7359 of 10003
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Of course, there's a balance to be drawn and when my players get hit by a ball I know they're as much shocked and scared as they are hurt. And it hurts plenty. That's something that I always acknowledge and validate with them. But it's usually not damaging and that's kind of the distinction. Learning to deal with painful things that aren't really injurious. Not more than a bruise.

That's actually an extremely valuable lesson -- that, although you might be doubled over, clutching your shin, yelling "Fuck! That HURTS! Fuck!", it's not going to hurt that badly for very long, and lo, you'll survive.

But so much of baseball coaching is about teaching them how to handle their fear. It's a legitimate fear, but you have to master it if you want to play.

Plus, once you've taken a line drive to the shin -- at least, this is true for me -- you're less afraid of it happening again, because at least now it's a known factor. You know it'll hurt, and you know how much it'll hurt, and that if the ball takes a weird hop, yeah, it's gonna hurt, but you'll survive.

Because you can't have ballplayers who do that thing where they stick out their glove tentatively while turning their head away, because that way lies missing teeth.


Fred Pete - May 01, 2007 5:00:41 am PDT #7360 of 10003
Ann, that's a ferret.

Many sympathies, Aileann.


Steph L. - May 01, 2007 5:01:13 am PDT #7361 of 10003
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Oatmeal:

Ailleann, I'm so sorry.


SuziQ - May 01, 2007 5:06:26 am PDT #7362 of 10003
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Oh, Aillean, my sympathies.


SuziQ - May 01, 2007 5:07:28 am PDT #7363 of 10003
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Instant Oatmeal.

Because you can't have ballplayers who do that thing where they stick out their glove tentatively while turning their head away, because that way lies missing teeth.

Oh, like our varsity second baseman (girl)? She still has her teeth, but us parents figure it is a matter of time.


Steph L. - May 01, 2007 5:10:51 am PDT #7364 of 10003
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Oh, like our varsity second baseman (girl)? She still has her teeth, but us parents figure it is a matter of time.

Bloody hell! You can't play SECOND BASE and be afraid of the ball! I hope her parents have a good oral surgeon.


DCJensen - May 01, 2007 5:27:56 am PDT #7365 of 10003
All is well that ends in pizza.

The Oakland Overpass fire was caught on tape: [link]


SuziQ - May 01, 2007 5:28:05 am PDT #7366 of 10003
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Steph, I swear she just throws down her glove and closes her eyes. She has SO many errors this year, it is craxy and yet the coaches have done nothing to pull in another girl at second.

After two hand related injuries, K-Bug flinched too much at catcher and that is why she switched away from that position.