Only gonna make the softball game. I have already called DH and told him to make it a boy's night...maybe invite a buddy from work or something.

I wanna see redonkulous, but it will have to wait until I get home. Am marking it though.

Matilda is just so cute.

Okay, can we say "Doesn't respect boundaries?"

I e-mailed Group!President back and very politely declined his invitation to discuss all the agita that went down when I resigned from the committee.

He e-mailed me back and said that no, he really wants to meet.

Look, bud, if you ain't my employer or my mom, you can't MAKE me do shit.

A snippet:

I would like to hear from you in a face to face meeting your issues, and what could be done to resolve them if anything.

I. Have. No. More. Issues. Now that I'm off the committee from hell. No resolution is needed.

We as a group have many important things that you could be involved with in the future where your talents and input could be of great benefit.

Ahahahahaha!!!! He wants me BACK! That's what this is all about. No. Fucking. Way. Not even if you paid me double what I charge my clients.

In the end the choice is yours, but from where I sit your reaction and response was out of line as I said in my past email, besides being just plain wrong on a factual basis. There is a difference of opinion, that I can and do accept. Responsible people work through these things though, not just quit.

Responsible people who are volunteering can quit any time they like, jackass. Oh, and if my reaction and response were "out of line," why would you want me back on the committee?

Oh, that's right -- YOU CAN'T WRITE.

I want you to tell me what your reaction was based upon and why and what you think might be necessary to provide an environment where you could be both a thriving and contributing member of the group.

Seriously, boundaries. I don't owe you SHIT. If this is a veiled way to tell me that if I don't re-join the committee I'll be kicked out of the group (i.e., "a thriving and contributing member of the group"), well, then kick me out. Don't pussyfoot around it.

Though, really, I think that sending a veiled message is WAY too subtle for him to do.

I haven't replied yet, b/c I want to get The Boy's input on my reply.

I cannot believe this shit is still going on, after all this time.

Teppy, his issues have issues. Do not feed the energy creature.

In the end the choice is yours, but from where I sit your reaction and response was out of line as I said in my past email, besides being just plain wrong on a factual basis.

"In the end, the choice to continue harrassing me is yours, but from where I sit, your past few emails are out of line, besides being just plain assholeish on a factual basis."

Gee Tep, he's both an idiot and an asshole.

"Dear SIR, as delightful as your request is to discuss the matter I must respectfully decline. In other words: No. I will not meet you asswipe man, I will not do it on a can. Cease irritating me on the matter; you are worse than rectal itch."

How about that ?

ION, I'm having way too much fun with this. (Yes, I named it as if it belonged to Clovis. It seemed only appropriate for a virtual pink bat created by "Bunny Hero Labs.")

But you can click on it and make it eat bugs and flap around!

Good lord, Teppy, that's ridiculous.

Did y'all know there's a musical called "Saving Aimee"? Mention of it on dcist.com made me giggle.

He wants Teppy to react, so he can prove how "unreasonable" she is.

I'd give him as few words as possible -- something like, "I have no unresolved issues. Thanks."

Ugh, Teppy. I think you might need to resend your previous correspondance where you did clearly tell him your position. Clearly he didn't read it.

I skipped hundreds of messages. Was sick yesterday with intestinal distress. Then last night I was so uncomfortable I couldn't sleep at all. My upper right side (gall bladder area) was very painful all the way through. Just sore and ouchy everywhere. So I went to one of my docs this morning. No kidney infection. Did an ultrasound, gall bladder and liver look good. He says he doesn't know. He took bunches of blood to check that everything is functioning right. Could just be sore from a pulled muscle or achy from whatever caused the original distress. Maybe ate something icky. Short version, blah. I don't ever go to see my docs for help. He did offer me pain killers since I am in pain, but I turned it down. He really didn't want me taking anything in case it got worse anyway.

It is subsiding some. I'm just a big baby.