It's always been a racially loaded epithet.
I guess the fact that I grew up in a 98% white environment buffered me from that sort of stuff. The tar baby was only ever that thing that was going to wind you up in the briar patch, B'rer Rabbit.
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It's always been a racially loaded epithet.
I guess the fact that I grew up in a 98% white environment buffered me from that sort of stuff. The tar baby was only ever that thing that was going to wind you up in the briar patch, B'rer Rabbit.
I don't know about always -- according to Wikipedia, the first time it was used in the US was in a Harper's Weekly story (Joel Chandler Harris was actually second with it) loosely derived from a Ghanian Anansi story, with exactly the meaning connie describes. The meaning has morphed since then, but it does seem to have been originally just one plot-central but racially neutral element of a longer trickster tale.
Kat and Lori, all the best to you and Noah and Grace.
Here's a nice, clear source as well: [link]
(And I just noticed that that entry was the "word of the day" on my birthday. Not sure how I feel about that.)
Coffee:
The trickster tale is an ancient African tradition, and similar "tar baby" tales have been told for hundreds (if not thousands) of years. The problem is that certain ignorant racists decided to co-opt it and have used it to refer to anyone with dark skin, so it became another means to objectify and degrade.
Swastikas didn't used to be associated with Nazis, either. I have a lovely Navajo silver and turquoise bracelet that I inherited from my Mom that was bought pre-WWII and decorated with cute little ones.
Stupid racists. I remember being so very confused as a kid when someone called a black girl I knew a tar baby and me going, "But she's a perfectly nice girl, how is she something that's going ensare you and get you in trouble?" Because I knew it wasn't meant in a way that suggested future romantic entanglements.
I grew up on the fringes of Appalachia, on the Mason-Dixon line, and I guess we were close enough to rural Southerners to inherit the trickster stories.
I don't know about always
Yeah, but it's been around for a long while. It's even in the musical Hair in their list song of racist terms.
The OED lists tar-baby as a derogatory term for someone of mixed race, as in, it wasn't a good thing to have African-American blood, before it lists it as a derogatory term for an African American or Maori.
The OED lists tar-baby as a derogatory term for someone of mixed race, as in, it wasn't a good thing to have African-American blood,
Kind of goes with the whole "one drop" racist line of thinking. Somebody was "tarred" with their blackness.