I'm just, uh, just feeling kinda... truthsome right now. And, uh... life's just too damn short for ifs and maybes.

Mal ,'Heart Of Gold'


Natter Five-O: Book 'Em, Danno.  

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§ ita § - Mar 08, 2007 3:04:03 pm PST #6000 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Yikes. My parents were the "You got an A? Do they give out A+?" type, so that sort of back and forth is completely alien to me. Also, I think our interim grades didn't count for as much as they do over here. It's not like I had a GPA to maintain, or anything.

But that sounds like quite the travail, Kristin.

I have agave! And gluten-free flour and xanthan gum. I mocked Colin when he told me his GF baked with those things, but now I'm curious.

I'd intended to make gluten-free brownies tonight, and agave oatmeal bread tomorrow, but all bakage may be put off due to random headache.

Oy. Have to go back to the LAPL site. Not only was I a day too late to pick up my ILL, I had to pay a $1 fine for missing it. So I went into the new, crazy-houred, library to give them a dollar. Pfft.


Topic!Cindy - Mar 08, 2007 3:04:58 pm PST #6001 of 10001
What is even happening?

The thing is? I'm not that teacher at all. (Not to say that you all think I'm beating kids in the closet, but this is a hot button for me.) I'm the teacher that kids come hang out with during lunch. I'm the teacher that sends flowers to her kids in the hospital and gives anyone with a reasonable excuse a reasonable extension. I bend over backwards to make my students feel valued, and I work my ass off to make every lesson and every paper a meaningful experience for them.

I know that. That's why I started my post with saying you're a great teacher. There are good and bad (and mostly mediocre) everythings -- doctors, lawyers, cops, mothers, teachers, scientists, street sweepers, priests, writers, actors, cooks, waiters -- you name it.

I just couldn't get over the parent having the nerve to protest a test score. I'm always so much, "Oh, well," about it on the outside (even when, on the inside, I feel like something was unfair -- because life is unfair, and that's a part of learning, too).


Topic!Cindy - Mar 08, 2007 3:06:32 pm PST #6002 of 10001
What is even happening?

I have agave! And gluten-free flour and xanthan gum. I mocked Colin when he told me his GF baked with those things, but now I'm curious.

I saw Colin in a Lifetime Movie that TiVo grabbed, this week. It might be the first Lifetime Movie I've ever watched. He was adorable and did not get the girl, which suprised me, but made the story better than I'd prejudged Lifetime movies in my mind.


Pix - Mar 08, 2007 3:12:31 pm PST #6003 of 10001
The status is NOT quo.

Thanks. Cindy, I know you didn't think that.

I'm just saying that given how many crap teachers there are out there, why is this parent giving me such a hard time? WTF does she expect to gain from having a COPY of the damn thing? Is she going to take it to another teacher and get a second opinion or something? Isn't it more important that the student review it with me? It all comes down to living in a society where everything is negotiable, even a grade.


Allyson - Mar 08, 2007 3:15:15 pm PST #6004 of 10001
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

I think it's just that you've destroyed her self-esteem.

Everyone gets a trophy, an A for just showing up, a brownie, and a hug.

Every child is special, and every special child deserves an A.


-t - Mar 08, 2007 3:15:18 pm PST #6005 of 10001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

You are really explaining the situation well, Kristin. I hope a lightbulb goes off in the parents head when they read that.

I tried to avoid Xanthan Gum for some crackpot reason at one point. That stuff is in everything! It's, apparently, magic. It thickens sauces and browns roasts and washes up your pots, from what I understand.

I need a device that will charge my phone while it's in my purse. I use the phone so infrequently that the dribble of charge it loses keeping it's little green light lit drains it in between times I think to look at it, so everytime I know I'll want it, it needs charging. Unfortunately, I rarely think of that until just before I'll need it, if that far in advance. I'm waiting for it to charge right now, so I can be sure I'll actually get the call when DH gets to the station before we go to a play tonight.

It's a liberal interpretation of "need", I realize.


Jesse - Mar 08, 2007 3:16:11 pm PST #6006 of 10001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Some people are always crazy.

I just turned on Survivor for the first time in years, and what is with these people's names? Dreams, Rocky, Boo? I feel like I'm watching I Love New York.


sarameg - Mar 08, 2007 3:16:57 pm PST #6007 of 10001

OK, my local nbc affiliate is showing a documentary they produced on Maryland county in Liberia. Founded by (freed?) slaves who sailed from Fells Point. They are currently giving the history of the recent civil war. The news crew are the first media to visit in 30 years.

A few years back, there was another special on the Holocaust, and I think this may have been the same channel. It's...fascinating that local commercial media has done this. I'm not aware of many local affiliates doing this sort of thing.


sarameg - Mar 08, 2007 3:18:54 pm PST #6008 of 10001

1500 people living in an abandoned and derelict Intercontinental high rise hotel.


Topic!Cindy - Mar 08, 2007 3:19:27 pm PST #6009 of 10001
What is even happening?

I'm just saying that given how many crap teachers there are out there, why is this parent giving me such a hard time?
I have no clue.
WTF does she expect to gain from having a COPY of the damn thing? Is she going to take it to another teacher and get a second opinion or something? Isn't it more important that the student review it with me? It all comes down to living in a society where everything is negotiable, even a grade.

It's possible they're going to make the poor kid relive and relive and relive her 70. I say it's a good policy your school has there, Kristin.