Like any of that's enough to fight the Dark Master. Bator.

Xander ,'Lessons'


Natter Five-O: Book 'Em, Danno.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Ailleann - Feb 13, 2007 8:09:23 am PST #487 of 10001
vanguard of the socialist Hollywood liberal homosexualist agenda

Ailleann, aren't you up Northwest, where it's actually worse? You should get to go home. Seriously.

I'm on the south side, by 23/270. I live a sneeze's worth north of 670, so not too far away from here. It's about a 12 mile commute, so I don't think getting home will be prohibitively difficult.

t /C-bus natter

I'm just wondering if my library book that's due today would be overdue if I returned it tomorrow, since the libraries are closed.


§ ita § - Feb 13, 2007 8:10:08 am PST #488 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

The "how you are" thing cracks me up. I totally got the Jordan Catalano love, or, well, lust. Shame Jared Leto's such a waste of space.

We used to tell our students that a given task was easy; that they could do it. But then they'd get frustrated and angry when it wasn't easy for them, so we realized we needed to switch. Now we tell them that it is a difficult task, but they can do it anyway.

I was told this as a difference between male and female students. Men were supposed to react well to being told a task they hadn't mastered was easy, and women better to being told it was hard.

So far I've tried to pay attention to that, and have noticed in other people's classes women getting quite angry and frustrated when told that what they can't do is easy.

Generally splitting feedback along those gender lines has worked out well for me so far.


lisah - Feb 13, 2007 8:15:25 am PST #489 of 10001
Punishingly Intricate

have noticed in other people's classes women getting quite angry and frustrated when told that what they can't do is easy.

nothing makes me angrier. I mean if I'm having a hard time with it is obviously not easy for ME!


Ailleann - Feb 13, 2007 8:19:55 am PST #490 of 10001
vanguard of the socialist Hollywood liberal homosexualist agenda

Oooh, they're closing the office. I have to do my conference call, but after that I'm going. Whee!


amych - Feb 13, 2007 8:21:34 am PST #491 of 10001
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

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Matt the Bruins fan - Feb 13, 2007 8:23:30 am PST #492 of 10001
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

Why doesn't weather hate Las Vegas?

The tacky bright lights blind the storm clouds and make them turn away?


bon bon - Feb 13, 2007 8:23:41 am PST #493 of 10001
It's five thousand for kissing, ten thousand for snuggling... End of list.

Where are these office-closing storms happening? Ohio?


Steph L. - Feb 13, 2007 8:29:17 am PST #494 of 10001
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

Where are these office-closing storms happening? Ohio?

Yup. I, in fact, gave myself a snow day, because we've got the icy rain/sleet/slushy nastiness. Even the university is closed, and it's notorious for NEVER closing, no matter what the weather.

Remember the lady with the trash car that was mentioned here yesterday? It turns out that she has two other trash-filled cars and a houseful of trash (so much that the front door won't close, seriously).

I feel SO much better about my lack of housekeeping motivation. Because ALL of *my* doors close.


§ ita § - Feb 13, 2007 8:29:18 am PST #495 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

I mean if I'm having a hard time with it is obviously not easy for ME!

I much prefer the "you're almost there" approach. But it still has to be used gently, because it can feel very far away when you're not the one getting it.

Sometimes, man, I'm telling my body to do it, and nothing relevant happens. Truly frustrating. What it usually takes is going back to the beginning of a move, and working out an intermediary step that has my body feel the right sensation, and then trying to move again. Which is to say--there's a quantum leap I'm missing, and keeping on with the same approach is what'll make me mad and dispirited. A good instructor works out how to go back to the drawing board, or how to move on, with the hopes that another day and another class make be the straw that breaks the hesitation's back.


Sue - Feb 13, 2007 8:33:35 am PST #496 of 10001
hip deep in pie

Man, I want to be sent home!!