Giles, if you would like to get by in American society, then you are going to have to follow our traditions. You're the patriarch. You have to host the festivities, or it's all meaningless.

Buffy ,'Sleeper'


Sunnydale Press

Having a party? Organizing a local F2F? Know something that we all really need to know? Announce it! Want to discuss anything posted here? Take it to Natter. Any natter here will be deleted.


beekaytee - Jul 26, 2011 9:59:12 am PDT #3327 of 4089
Compassionately intolerant

A quick blog post with a summer special on rates and a tip on letting go of resentments. [link]


erikaj - Jul 31, 2011 4:54:47 pm PDT #3328 of 4089
Always Anti-fascist!

My latest on Kos...part one of a two-part series on Obama and the ADA. [link]


Stephanie - Aug 01, 2011 8:33:19 am PDT #3329 of 4089
Trust my rage

Does anyone have a 15' Mac Book (Pro or otherwise) that they are looking to divest themselves of? Maybe 1-2 years old? I need a one for work but don't really need to buy new. And I had a bad experience on craigslist last time.

Profile address good


Scrappy - Aug 01, 2011 12:22:37 pm PDT #3330 of 4089
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

Hey, I just found out that Jane E. posted pix of the rehearsal for her new webseries they had at my house. You can see my blurry bedroom and blurry guest/music/other stuff room. Check it out: [link]


Pix - Aug 01, 2011 1:50:48 pm PDT #3331 of 4089
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

If you are on Facebook, support gay rights, and would like to contribute (in a very easy, non-financial way) to an incredible family’s quest to raise awareness, check out this page: [link] and “like” it. I know this family personally very well--Chelsea was my student and advisee, and she and her dads are one of the kindest, most loving families I have ever had the privilege to know. If you follow the link, you can read Chelsea’s own words and watch her speech from her dads’ wedding (the viral response to this video is what started her advocacy three years ago) as well her speech at a national convention last fall. I promise you will be moved by her passion and impressed by her wisdom and grace. Her family is pledging to donate $10,000 to the No H8 Campaign if they get 100,000 Likes by September 1st, so I’m trying to do my tiny part by spreading the word. If you feel the same, it would mean a lot if you would post a link on your own Facebook page to help them reach their goal. Thanks, everyone.


smonster - Aug 01, 2011 8:57:42 pm PDT #3332 of 4089
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Hey - Kiva has this free trial thing going on, where they will finance a limited number of $25 loans free for people invited by existing members (Kiva gets the loan repayment, of course). I've been meaning to try Kiva and this seemed like the perfect opportunity. If you'd like to give it a try, here's a link - [link] (Full disclosure - if enough people join, I get a t-shirt. I don't give a crap about a t-shirt, really.)


Scrappy - Aug 04, 2011 11:13:48 am PDT #3333 of 4089
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

So for my 55th (!!!WTF!!!!1!) birthday present to myself, I am starting a blog. Would anyone who wants to, please take a look at the layout and leave any advice for this total newbie in the comments? [link] I will take the advice and delete the post before I actually go live, so feel free to be as straightforward/detailed/snarky as you want. Thanks, mighty hivemind!


smonster - Aug 04, 2011 4:04:39 pm PDT #3334 of 4089
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Before I found y'all, I found Bitch magazine. After years of buying it at the newsstand, I ponied up and became a sustainer. For $5 month, I get my mag and my name is even in it! I find my name every month.

Anyway! "Feminist response to pop culture" strikes me as relevent to Buffista interests. They're doing a sustainer/subscriber drive right now to keep the magazine in print. Here's a sample post on their website on liking problematic media. [link]

Just putting it out there in case anyone wants to support what they do.


Scrappy - Aug 06, 2011 8:46:18 am PDT #3335 of 4089
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

As a birthday gift to myself, I have started a skating blog. here's the link: [link] Hope all y'all Buffistas like it!


beekaytee - Aug 08, 2011 7:12:03 am PDT #3336 of 4089
Compassionately intolerant

This is a really sweet story in the LA Times about the Peace March Reunion. I was glad to only attend virtually, but I do love these people. There are some nice pics too. Did I mention that I love these people?