No power in the 'verse can stop me.

River ,'War Stories'


The Crying of Natter 49  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Jesse - Jan 28, 2007 4:40:38 pm PST #6517 of 10001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Crap. I just remembered I have to be at work an hour early for no apparent reason tomorrow. Bleh.


§ ita § - Jan 28, 2007 4:44:02 pm PST #6518 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

My mother worked before she married, after she married, and within months of popping me from her womb. The only breaks she took were because we moved countries and she had to get new grants for more research.

I read somewhere that Jamaica is one of the few countries in the world that valued girl babies over boys. Not sure about the veracity, but female breadwinners are completely and totally accepted, perhaps even more stereotypical than the man bringing home the bacon.


brenda m - Jan 28, 2007 4:44:09 pm PST #6519 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Oh, I love Free to Be. I have the DVD.

Weirdly, a friend has the CD of the songs, and on the incredibly-bizarre-to-the-modern-listener track of You Don't Have to Change At All, Michael Jackson's part is just gone.

I have no earthly idea where my SS card is. I've known the number by heart ever since I applied for college, but the card itself has vanished into the ether.

I actually still have mine, and know where it is. Which is incredibly out of character for me. My Canadian SIN card is long gone, and I don't know the number, so at some point it's going to take some doing to replace.

What I find interesting (and irksome) social commentary is that it states my father's profession, but there is no such box for my mother. There's more info on my dad on that form than there is on the woman who carried me. @@ 1975!

I've mentioned this here recently for some reason, but when I was born in 1970, my mother's (Canadian) citizenship did not transfer automatically to me, whereas if my father had been Canadian and I was born outside Canada, it would have been automatic. By the time my sister was born (1980) they'd stopped smoking that particular crack.

But on their marriage cert (Canada, late 60s), he's recorded as "divorcé" while she at 26 was registered as "spinster."


Jesse - Jan 28, 2007 4:46:09 pm PST #6520 of 10001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I've mentioned this here recently for some reason, but when I was born in 1970, my mother's (Canadian) citizenship did not transfer automatically to me, whereas if my father had been Canadian and I was born outside Canada, it would have been automatic. By the time my sister was born (1980) they'd stopped smoking that particular crack.

That's really cracktastic, because you can guarantee who gave birth to you, but your father? NSM.


brenda m - Jan 28, 2007 4:47:08 pm PST #6521 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I know! Hello? And for citizenship, which is kind of a big deal.


Amy - Jan 28, 2007 4:49:55 pm PST #6522 of 10001
Because books.

I adore Free to Be, You and Me. I don't have the DVD, but I do have the CD soundtrack and all the kids have listened to it.

My grandmother always worked, which was unusual enough in the fifties, and she worked in the trucking industry. My grandfather always cooked and cleaned right along with her, so my dad grew up that way, too, which was great (my mom was diagnosed with lupus when I was thirteen, but had been ill for years before that) because he never had a second thought about housework or cooking.

Only one of my friend's mothers worked when I was a kid, though. Suburban New Jersey, 1970s, and Ann was practically the only kid I knew whose mom worked.


brenda m - Jan 28, 2007 4:50:46 pm PST #6523 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Did Michael Jackson go all Men-in-Black on your CD too? I'm just fascinated by that.


Vortex - Jan 28, 2007 4:51:24 pm PST #6524 of 10001
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

I am back from teaching and from Full Force

with Cult Jam?

Heh. I got an SSN when I was 10 or so. I think it was when I got a savings account. My brother and I got them at the same time. I was disappointed that our numbers weren't sequential. I still have the card.


Pix - Jan 28, 2007 4:52:05 pm PST #6525 of 10001
The status is NOT quo.

Both my parents worked my whole life, except when my dad took a leave to work on his 6th year degree (and then he got to take care of me during the day since I was an infant). Of course, given that they were making about $15K a year combined as teachers, they didn't have much choice. Stupid old payscale for teachers.


Jesse - Jan 28, 2007 4:52:59 pm PST #6526 of 10001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

the incredibly-bizarre-to-the-modern-listener track of You Don't Have to Change At All,

That's the one with "And I don't care if you're pretty at all/And I don't care if you never get tall/I like what what I look like, and you're nice small," yeah? Not completely irrelevant...