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'Beneath You'


The Crying of Natter 49  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Jesse - Jan 09, 2007 3:36:55 pm PST #1519 of 10001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

You can tell by how the reservoir is seated if it is a bottom-filler. Had I known I'd have a cat who attacks water bubbles, I wouldn't have bought the first one I did.

INteresting.


Jesse - Jan 09, 2007 3:39:57 pm PST #1520 of 10001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Teachers: you've got to watch this clip from the Daily Show about guns in schools. [link] (I think that will open the player right up. If not, it's "Class Warfare," on the left side of the Comedy Central homepage.)


Kat - Jan 09, 2007 4:05:47 pm PST #1521 of 10001
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

ita, if I can find mine, you're welcome to use it. I think I know where it is.


brenda m - Jan 09, 2007 4:35:38 pm PST #1522 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Urg. Back from sushi with ex-boss. We got on to a kind of sensitive topic, and she said something that...well. I know we come at these things from very different places, so our conversation is full of "I know this isn't how you see it buts". She went a little too far tonight, I think without meaning it. Not a little, way too far, on something that is very, very sensitive.

And I did call her on it. Sort of, I guess. What I said was, "until you said X, we were okay." But she was all "what did I say, you know I wouldn't have said anything to hurt you" about it and...explaining what had upset and offended me would have made the whole thing worse, you know? I just really didn't want to have that conversation, and hashing the whole thing out would have meant putting our worldviews in more explicit opposition than normal. So I basically said I must have misheard, which she didn't buy for a second, and said so, but was okay with going along with me there.

I'm still, obviously, not okay with it, and needed to vent a little. But I think it was the right call for the moment and for our relationship.

Sorry for being so cryptic. Maybe tomorrow I'll feel up to going into the whole thing.


sarameg - Jan 09, 2007 4:50:17 pm PST #1523 of 10001

Well, at least she's an ex boss, right?

I hate that sort of thing.

Actually, you reminded me(though this is totally NOT of the same personal weirdness,) I had a skeevy interaction at a stoplight tonight, of all places. The older guy passenger in the next car starts talking to me, trying to borrow a drag. It's very hard to ignore, but I'm doing ok. Then he goes "so, you like chocolate?" and I'm thinking WTF? He's gonna try to give me m&ms or something (this has happened before and IS REALLY FUCKING WEIRD.) I respond, politely in the negative because NO, he keeps teasing or whatever and really, is harmless if really inappropriate and I can't wait for the light to change. And then he says "I just wanted to see you smile. I like vanilla" and I realize a whole other level of conversation was going on (skin color) and I'm even more freaked out for coming off as an ass because oh god, that's awful and then, hey, wait, he's being creepy but STILL, I don't want to perpetuate that bullshit even by accident even to creepy and it's all yick.

Thank god the light changed. So many freaking issues at work there.


§ ita § - Jan 09, 2007 4:52:08 pm PST #1524 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Kat, that would be great, if it's not hard to find.


Scrappy - Jan 09, 2007 5:02:04 pm PST #1525 of 10001
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

Ijust got back from having dinner with Meara! Yes, two Buffistas meet up in Minneapolis. The restaurant was rather dull and we had the world's most interrupting waitress, but that was made Up for by the fact that Meara is such bright, funny, and charming company. I had a gret time!


Ailleann - Jan 09, 2007 5:02:59 pm PST #1526 of 10001
vanguard of the socialist Hollywood liberal homosexualist agenda

House: Now THAT'S my Greg House. And I hope that's the last we see of the frakkin cop.

Also, did we know that Hugh Laurie wrote a book?


Kat - Jan 09, 2007 5:03:50 pm PST #1527 of 10001
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

Kat, that would be great, if it's not hard to find.

you don't need the watch, right? just the band? that part is prolly easier to find. the watch? nsm.


Kat - Jan 09, 2007 5:09:21 pm PST #1528 of 10001
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

So I may have promised too soon, ita. But when I unearth it (as is inevitable), which should be in a day or too, I'll set it aside for you.