On mine it's a menu option when you're in the inbox.

Thank you! I tried "Reconcile Now," and it didn't do anything immediately, but like a minute later, the message disappeared!

Hil, the only thing that's wonky with IMAP and Gmail is the fact that there is a delay receiving your email. It's a Gmail issue, not a BB one, but I went back to POP access when I'd have to wait up to 10 minutes to get a new email.

As for you first concern, I usually manually delete the email on the BB that's already been deleted from the account on a computer. There's lots of stuff out there that talks about the Gmail/BB issues that you should be able to find via Google. Also, there are some forums that have been very helpful with mine (if you can ignore the occasional instance of chatspeak and bad grammar): Crackberry.com, Blackberryforums.com, and HowardForums.com.

Hil, the only thing that's wonky with IMAP and Gmail is the fact that there is a delay receiving your email.

Is this a Gmail issue in connection with Blackberries specifically? Cuz I have pretty much instant IMAP access on my computer.

A warning about using Gmail IMAP, though: be sure to read up on how it interprets various signals. Clicking "Delete" on a message actually archives it on Gmail, e.g. To really delete, you have to drag it to the Gmail Trash directly. And the folders->labels->folders exchange can be kind of weird, though I finally got the hang of it.

if I just want something to play softly next to the bed is this cool or do I need to invest more than $5?

Iron Man hates Linux. Iron Man Armor Now Comes With Proprietary Software

Iron Man! He's not just the kinda guy who saves the world from supervillains and Jeff Bridges with a shaved head anymore! No, now he's the kind of guy who's off crusading against... Linux? Wait, that can't be right. The latest interview promoting movie tie-in comic The Invincible Iron Man seems to suggest a more software-based approach to the character than ever before, however.

According to series writer Matt Fraction, the battle between Tony Stark and new bad guy Ezekiel Stane is really just an allegory for the battle Bill Gates wages against smaller software providers every single day of his life:

Zeke is a post-national business man and kind of an open source ideological terrorist... He has absolutely no loyalty to any sort of law, creed, or credo. He doesn't want to beat Tony Stark, he wants to make him obsolete. Windows wants to be on every computer desktop in the world, but Linux and Stane want to destroy the desktop. He's the open source to Stark's closed source oppressiveness.

I'm designing a home network in my head, after reading through a product description for a Home Media Server, and thinking about stuff that you mentioned, tommy.

From reading up on Time Machine and the EMC product it seems that backup to hard drive is no longer a thing of the future, but a thing of the present. In addition to presenting space for me to save files on the server I can also present space to facilitate a system backup/restore for either my PC or Mac machine. If that's my goal, would it really matter what OS the server is running? And then I have the option to back the server itself up to a standalone drive or to optical media.

As shared storage goes, is there a way to have multiple iTunes installs pointing to the same library? I'd like my laptop and my desktop to be looking at the same songs, if not also the same playlists as each other. It's all mine, after all.

I guess I could also drop a shared printer off the server, but I'm guessing that hub/switch/router offerings these days are starting to have USB jacks for just that.

Does that sound plausible?

As shared storage goes, is there a way to have multiple iTunes installs pointing to the same library? I'd like my laptop and my desktop to be looking at the same songs, if not also the same playlists as each other.

I've never tried it, but can't you tell iTunes where the xml database is? If so, then put it on a shared drive and have your multiple PCs point to it. I doubt that you could get a Mac and a PC to share the same database though. Also, you may only be able to connect one PC at a time to iTunes.

Probably very stupid/basic question but, is there a site that lets you upload mp3s to share that is similar to the way Flickr and Photobucket host pics/video?

Try box.net.