Well, then, this is a day I'll feel good to be me.

Mal ,'Trash'


Natter 48 Contiguous States of Denial  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Allyson - Dec 14, 2006 9:01:19 am PST #6230 of 10007
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

ahhhh ha ha! Funny brain fart!


Allyson - Dec 14, 2006 9:03:12 am PST #6231 of 10007
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

No, but seriously, her tubes were suing her ovaries. It was a lengthy court battle and I can't believe no one told me about that.

You all would let me walk around with toilet paper on my shoe, wouldn't you?


Aims - Dec 14, 2006 9:04:07 am PST #6232 of 10007
Shit's all sorts of different now.

Oddly, I don't have that much of an issue with the doctor. I would rather a doctor really lay it on the line what I could be facing, the consequences of what it is I want done, and bring up possible changes in my life. Now, I'd be pissed if, after I was informed of all of that and still wanted it done, he refused, but I can't fault a doctor for A) giving me all the information I need, even if I don't want it or B) having an internal struggle with it. I would far rather have a doctor that sometimes struggles with what the patient wants vs what might be a "better" decision, than one that just say, "You want it, fine - I'll do it."

I would imagine that doctors go through many internal struggles with their patients. Oncologists, for example who have patients that just don't want to fight their illness anymore.


§ ita § - Dec 14, 2006 9:04:50 am PST #6233 of 10007
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Ah! That is pretty funny.

I clicked on one of the ads on my Gmail page, for unusual gift ideas. Not that I'm really buying this year, but I'm always curious...

What a crock! It took me to a directory page (that looks like the one you get when you mis-type an URL and they're reselling ad space. Outback Steakhouse is an unusual gift idea? Not in the good way. Weirdos. I guess they make enough money reselling that space to pay Google to advertise them. Soon, we will run out of product and just have ads.


Nora Deirdre - Dec 14, 2006 9:05:44 am PST #6234 of 10007
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Hulk Smash

OMG, my therapist JUST brought that article up not even an hour ago!


sarameg - Dec 14, 2006 9:18:27 am PST #6235 of 10007

I really can't get over the patronizing tone. Really.


Kathy A - Dec 14, 2006 9:20:13 am PST #6236 of 10007
We're very stretchy. - Connie Neil

Paul said of Peter, ‘I opposed him to his face, because he was clearly in the wrong (Gal. 2:11).’

I've got the Frontline doc on early Christianity on tape, and one of the Biblical scholars that they have as talking heads in it (who happens to be the hottest guy in the show--a very good looking African American divinity school professor with a yummy voice) mentions this passage, and says how Paul is saying how "'I went to Jerusalem, confronted Peter, I got into his face and told him what was what!' Thing is, he doesn't say that he got Peter to change his opinion, so what's left unsaid is that he most likely did go to Jerusalem and have words with Peter, but didn't win the battle."

If you get a chance to see this doc ("From Jesus to Christ"), I highly recommend it--the four hours cover the historical Jesus, Paul and the pre-Gospel "Jesus movement," the writing of the Gospels and the Jewish revolts happening at about the same time, and then the next 200 years up to Constantine's conversion.


Aims - Dec 14, 2006 9:22:33 am PST #6237 of 10007
Shit's all sorts of different now.

patronizing tone.

I, personally, didn't hear that tone, but I can see how it would read like that.


askye - Dec 14, 2006 9:25:36 am PST #6238 of 10007
Thrive to spite them

I hated the "What if your children died in a fire" question, it makes children sound so...replacable and unimportant as individuals.


askye - Dec 14, 2006 9:27:58 am PST #6239 of 10007
Thrive to spite them

Plus, if the woman's husband had come asking for a vascetomy would he have acted the same way and asked the same questions?

Is it as hard for men to get vascetomies as it is for women to get a tubal ligation?