Gavin, ask yourself this question. What are you more afraid of, a giant murderous demon or me?

Lilah ,'Destiny'


Natter 48 Contiguous States of Denial  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Cashmere - Dec 09, 2006 4:30:46 pm PST #5295 of 10007
Now tagless for your comfort.

Cash, what Cindy said about affording the shot if possible.

I suspect that the cost of the shot is just a shade over a $1,000 per (according to my share of the medical, plus my copay). It's sort of a complicated procedure--and they have an x-ray tech there taking pictures as they go. Pain injection, then they inject me with dye to see where they're shooting, then the put in a giant needle, attached to a packet of medication, slowing injecting it into the spine.

I'm not sure if it's just insurance or the effectiveness of the medication (it's cortisone, I think, so they may be extra careful with steriods). I should probably know more but I never seem to have very much time with the doctor and I usually forget to ask.

The last shot lasted four months. If this one can just last five, I can grit out a month, I think. I know surgery is easier now than it was--but I seriously worry about recovery with two kids under 3.

Time will tell. But it will be my last resort.


DavidS - Dec 09, 2006 4:54:12 pm PST #5296 of 10007
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

I know surgery is easier now than it was--but I seriously worry about recovery with two kids under 3.

I will note that in the several people I know who have had the surgery, the recovery wasn't instantaneous (though the pain relief was), it was fairly quick.


Cashmere - Dec 09, 2006 5:29:26 pm PST #5297 of 10007
Now tagless for your comfort.

I will note that in the several people I know who have had the surgery, the recovery wasn't instantaneous (though the pain relief was), it was fairly quick.

That actually helps. If it's a matter of a week or two, that's doable in my book (if DH can get the time off at work and I can get help coming into the house).

We'll cross that bridge when we have to, though.


Ailleann - Dec 09, 2006 5:34:16 pm PST #5298 of 10007
vanguard of the socialist Hollywood liberal homosexualist agenda

Cash, if you need help, I would be glad to come over and play with your kids. I'm a trained aunt!


Cashmere - Dec 09, 2006 6:05:57 pm PST #5299 of 10007
Now tagless for your comfort.

I swear, Aillean, until my parents called this morning and said they were coming, I had you in mind! I was mentally running through my list.

They're leaving tomorrow afternoon, but I suspect my SiL is driving down then (it's a shorter trip for her and she doesn't work Monday).

I've got such a good support system. It's times like these that I really count myself lucky. Deena was ready to drive down here Friday to make sure I could get the shot.


Steph L. - Dec 09, 2006 6:56:48 pm PST #5300 of 10007
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I will note that in the several people I know who have had the surgery, the recovery wasn't instantaneous (though the pain relief was), it was fairly quick.

That actually helps. If it's a matter of a week or two, that's doable in my book (if DH can get the time off at work and I can get help coming into the house).

My best friend's sister had surgery for herniated discs, and at the time she had a 5-year-old and a baby under 12 months (maybe 9-ish?), and her biggest fear was the recovery time, because of the kids.

Well -- and she did have some help from her DH and her mom -- she recovered so damned quickly that she was playing volleyball at 6 weeks after surgery (possibly less than 6).

The biggest thing you'd have to deal with during recovery is not being able to lift things heavier than a gallon of milk, for a week or maybe 2. (At least, I'm assuming that would be an annoyance, b/c of the kidlets.) Other than that, I remember needing to sleep more than normal for about a month, but even the bulk of that was the first 2 weeks.

I was back to work after 2 weeks, and after 6 weeks I was at the LA F2F. No volleyball, though. Because I'm not CRAZY.

Sure, it's not a walk in the park -- it is, after all, surgery -- but I think that, while you'd have to watch yourself and rest when needed for the first month, you'd really be able to tackle most things after 2 weeks.

t /back surgery pimp cheerleader


Allyson - Dec 09, 2006 6:56:54 pm PST #5301 of 10007
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

I dunno if it's a faux pas to ask in Press, but does anyone have a media bistro account? I got a google alert:

From the Editors: 'We Strive to be a Home to Our Authors ... ... or the 2007 release of Will the Vampire People Please Leave the Lobby?, a collection of humorous essays (think David Sedaris amongst Internet geeks), ...

It's an interview with my editor that I want to read, but I cant spare the 50 bucks for a subscription.

[link]


§ ita § - Dec 09, 2006 10:46:49 pm PST #5302 of 10007
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

explaining sex terms to the vanilla as long as I've known you.

Hmm. I should just hang out around only dirty people, I guess.

Went to a screening of The End of Suburbia recently. I think the raw vegan hosts were expecting relevant conversation not about how best to kill one's neighbours in the case of an apocalypse, and whether or not to eat them. Is keeping a cow to plough your fields mean enough to the cow that a vegan shouldn't do it? What about a furry or someone into pony play?

Poor hosts. I can't imagine where they spend their time on the web, but they also got to learn about yiffing and plushies and zentai (one of the people there got three suits for $15 each! I kinda want a Batgirl one). Good folk, and willing to stray from their agenda.

Also, kinda shocked folk.


Cass - Dec 09, 2006 11:10:45 pm PST #5303 of 10007
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

I think the raw vegan hosts were expecting relevant conversation not about how best to kill one's neighbours in the case of an apocalypse, and whether or not to eat them. Is keeping a cow to plough your fields mean enough to the cow that a vegan shouldn't do it?
It's not like they are cooking the cow.

And if we are killing neighbors? I have some to offer. With recipes if need be.

I think I need to wade in Boxed Set for a BSG tutor. I feel like I missed an ep or lots whenever I catch up on it.


msbelle - Dec 10, 2006 12:21:10 am PST #5304 of 10007
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

Good morning to jet lag. mac and I are home. a little worse for the wear (I was sick for 4 days and then there were fleas or bedbugs or both), but HOME. and he woke up with a smile in his new bed and greated mom with kisses. life is more than ok, even with bugs.