He'll be three in March! I'm going home for two weeks in December.

OK, here's my question, all you spoon-avoidants: how do you get the ground coffee into the filtery thing in the first place?

Pour it straight from the bag.

Not sharing a hotel room with my parents. Sorry, no can do.

The people across the street from us are having a baby grand piano delivered right now. Which is only weird because they were having a yard sale a month ago, and selling a sofa and matching chair that the woman said was "too big" for their small living room.

I'm thinking they might have gone with a spinet, but whatever floats your boat, I guess.

AmyLiz, bless you for mentioning this.

MUSIC TYPE PEOPLE: I was just dithering on whether to ask the above here, or not. I'm going to sign the children up for piano lessons. My mother is going to buy us either a full sized electronic keyboard or a spinet piano. Both are reconditioned or refurbished, or some such. The keyboard (Yamaha) is going for around $400. The piano is going for $900 something. The guy who sells the pianos says they take up about the same space (which makes sense) but that the spinet will last much longer. I'm dithering.

Any opinions.

We lose knives more often than spoons or forks. Pizza and Entenmann's danish box syndrome.

Yes! Knives! I know it's the Entenmann's. We do lose spoons though, too. I like to blame my husband.

I would totally go piano.

I don't know where our knives go, but they do go. We've got 6 of everything else, and only 3 knives.

Cindy, I'm probably the wrong person to ask -- I grew up with a baby grand piano, and I adore the sound of a true piano. (I don't care -- I never think the electronic keyboards sound exactly the same.)

I would totally go for the spinet, especially if you're signing all of the kids up (or plan to). That said, you might wait to see if one or any of them are really going to stick with it, because it's sad to have a piano in the house that no one plays.

One of my dreams is to buy a piano and take lessons again. My dad played beautifully, and around thirteen I rebelled and stopped practicing (because, you know, I had to think about boys more). I would love to play again, and I would love the kids to learn, too.

Our knives used to throw themselves, lemming-like, into the narrow crack between the counter and the stove at the old house.

Cindy, if you can afford the piano, go piano. It's not as portable, but the sound is infinitely richer.

What trappings define adulthood for you guys?

Well, I'm stuck in this loop where, I'm ready to have nice furniture, and can basically afford nice furniture, but can't afford a nice, permanent place of my own to put same. I'll replace the bad old tippy bookcases with something else that is nicer, but sturdy enough to be moved ten more times.

The trapping that really defined adulthood, for me, was the knowledge that most problems could be solved with a combination of research, money, and effort. I spent a couple of years there totally clueless about the world, and then realized that cluefulness was related to the interest I had in gaining a clue.