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Spike's Bitches 33: Weeping, crawling, blaming everybody else  

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Lilty Cash - Jan 07, 2007 4:37:17 pm PST #9546 of 10004
"You see? THAT's what they want. Love, and a bit with a dog."

Hi Cindy!!!!!! I've thought about everyone a lot lately and I can't for the life of me think why I was away. I think while I was living at home I just ducked out of a lot. (For no particularly good reason.) But I missed y'all!


Topic!Cindy - Jan 07, 2007 4:38:19 pm PST #9547 of 10004
What is even happening?

You have been missed, too. Do you have a LiveJournal, or anything? Ack. I have to run. Cookies are ready. I will check back in the a.m.


beekaytee - Jan 07, 2007 4:38:29 pm PST #9548 of 10004
Compassionately intolerant

Cindy, I honestly, sincerely understand about simply forgetting...especially if it is an expected behavior.

Fela never lets me know when he gets home...in this case, it was an imperative based on very specific issues = extreme tiredness and rain on the road.

When I saw him at the office, he seemed to not get at all why I could possibly be upset...making noises like I was wrong...later he gave an abject apology, but in the next message said basically, "Well I said I was sorry"...as if that made it okay.


Nicole - Jan 07, 2007 4:38:29 pm PST #9549 of 10004
I'm getting the pig!

It just didn't matter. Which felt odd too.

I've had that happen. I try and try and try to work things out and then suddenly I just hit a wall and I'm done.

I was specifically wondering if we'd ever see you here, ever again.

Speaking of - has anyone heard from Katie Bee? I miss seeing her font!


Cass - Jan 07, 2007 4:39:17 pm PST #9550 of 10004
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

I'm afraid the answer is no.
I'm sorry, Beej. But you seemed to answer that really clearly and without much reservation. Maybe that really is the right answer for you.

I asked, because I have totally forgotten to call my mother when I've told her I would (and she's forgotten me), even though it is somethign we're usually terrific about remembering.
Most of my "mom will want to know I am there safely" consists of flying these days. So now she tracks my flights. I generally turn my phone on while we are taxiing and get a text from her welcoming me to whereever I am. Because the computer told her I've landed. Helpful when dealing with delayed flights especially.


JenP - Jan 07, 2007 4:39:48 pm PST #9551 of 10004

I've been reading severals days of posts, so I'm afeared of missing lots and lots in a recap. But I've been thinking appropriate thoughts for you all as I've read.

I will throw out a "Smonster!" and a "Lilty!" since I haven't seen either of you over here in yonks. So good to see you both.

That's hard, Beej. I hope you get things sorted to your satisfaction.


-t - Jan 07, 2007 4:41:57 pm PST #9552 of 10004
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

More brackets, Beej. You know best if you are at the end of your rope with him. I'm sorry that you find yourself there.


beekaytee - Jan 07, 2007 4:42:47 pm PST #9553 of 10004
Compassionately intolerant

I've had that happen. I try and try and try to work things out and then suddenly I just hit a wall and I'm done.

SIGH My sistah.

I'm going to go draw a Lush bath...avobath or honey?...and soak this day away.

I'm a little teary with gratitude for this place of sharing and laughing and learning. It's such a gift.

Go team Buffista. And thanks.


Lilty Cash - Jan 07, 2007 4:43:44 pm PST #9554 of 10004
"You see? THAT's what they want. Love, and a bit with a dog."

Ack. That's way beyond my expertise of doing what the pictures on the laptop screen tell me to do. Unless you want me to kick your roomie out. I can do that! (Easy for me to say from all the way over here.)

That's what planes are for! I'll remember that if I ever need a tough!

I do still have an LJ, but I don't remember the last time I posted. I try to keep up with my friends page though. In a lurky way.

My eyes are ouchy so I think Ima have a cup of tea before I turn in. I'll be back. In less than a year this time!

Also, (((Beej))).


JenP - Jan 07, 2007 4:44:45 pm PST #9555 of 10004

Cookies are ready. I will check back in the a.m.

Deserting (heh) us for cookies, eh? I'm so... wishing I had cookies, actually.