Zoe: First rule of battle, little one. Don't ever let 'em know where you are. Mal: Whoo-hoo! I'm right here! I'm right here! You want some of me? Yeah, you do! Come on! Come on! Aaah! Whoo-hoo! Zoe: Of course, there are other schools of thought...

'The Message'


Spike's Bitches 33: Weeping, crawling, blaming everybody else  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Nora Deirdre - Dec 05, 2006 8:56:00 am PST #4400 of 10004
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Good luck Allieann! Hopefully soon you'll be able to work in foods that make it more livable (therefore more doable in the long run).


Beverly - Dec 05, 2006 8:58:20 am PST #4401 of 10004
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

I'm freezing, so I made a whole vat of tea. I have a collection of teapots, some of which don't get used, and thus should be tossed, but--pretty! Then there are ones that are pretty and get used, and some I use but The Menfolk wouldn't be caught dead using. All I do is make the tea in the pot anyway, and then decant it into the pump pot. Yesterday I used the white English Pristine pot, today I used a gorgeous potbellied fucshia-colored perfect pot--except for the fact that the spout is ferschimmlt, and the first third of the pot wound up on the counter and not in the pump pot. Or my mug.

So I surrendered to destiny and climbed up to the top shelf and got down the Brown Bettys. One isn't really a Betty, it's a Japan-made spiffied-up version, with dark brown glaze that lightens in stria toward a pale buff color at the bottom. Still, brown. Manly. And utilitarian. The other is a real Betty, plain, brown, self-effacing, homely, with "ENG" and a lighthouse scratched in the glaze on the bottom. It has a makeshift lid, since the inch-deep one was lost before I got the pot, but the makeshift works well enough, as long as you remember to keep a finger on it while you pour. The best thing about it, though? The spout points down, so there's none of this ooOOps! Splash! Gotcha! mess. Homely, utilitarian, completely civilized.

Too bad about the pretty pots.

It's great that Suzi's headache and Deena's pain have eased up. I vote for more of that. Sumi's knee and Hil's joints, I'm looking at you.


Ailleann - Dec 05, 2006 8:59:00 am PST #4402 of 10004
vanguard of the socialist Hollywood liberal homosexualist agenda

Thanks, Nora. It's just rough, and I think I may be PMSing too, and it's all very "let's crawl in a hole and die, ta ever so."

But I come and read the Buffistas, and you all make me happy, and I had a pretty poinsettia on my desk this morning, so not all is lost!


Beverly - Dec 05, 2006 9:01:18 am PST #4403 of 10004
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Heavens, Ailleann, however did you wind up starting a diet mere weeks before Christmas? Brave woman! Best luck with it, stick to your guns.


Laga - Dec 05, 2006 9:06:04 am PST #4404 of 10004
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

Several ounces of rootbeer later and I still cannot locate the beeping. It seems to have stopped completely. Must have been my onboard, "caffeine levels dangerously low" alarm.


Ailleann - Dec 05, 2006 9:12:28 am PST #4405 of 10004
vanguard of the socialist Hollywood liberal homosexualist agenda

however did you wind up starting a diet mere weeks before Christmas?

Because I have no brain in my head. At my last weigh-in, which was depressing, the gym manager was all "Let's do the diet!" and I was all "Whee!" And then after we started I thought, "six weeks?! but that's Christmas... damn!"

I have to read more about the plan (we need a new law to put six more hours in every day), but I think by Christmas time I won't be so restricted. I always eat too much at Christmas anyway, so maybe this will be a good way to keep from packing on more weight.


sj - Dec 05, 2006 9:26:43 am PST #4406 of 10004
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Aillean, good luck with the diet. I have been trying to eat healthier the last couple of days in the hopes of losing a little weight and getting some energy, and it is hard.


brenda m - Dec 05, 2006 9:44:02 am PST #4407 of 10004
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Maybe the coffee maker is trying to summon you.


Laura - Dec 05, 2006 9:49:15 am PST #4408 of 10004
Our wings are not tired.

Yay Aillean for the efforts.

Tough stuff this dieting. I'm in extreme diet mode. As in cleaning type fasting. Only consuming my mixture of water, maple syrup, lemon, and cayenne pepper. Yum. Fortunately I find it tasty. Day 5 now so I am not hungry at all. Lost 8.5 pounds already so that's cool.

I followed SIL's lead and did the fast because I have been having little health annoyances like never ending cough, ear infections, etc. 21 days of cleanse and my body should be happier with me. Of course, in the short run it is unpleasant, as in coughing up most of my lungs, but it has to be done. It has been easier than I expected. I will probably start to break fast the 22nd. It takes a few days so I should be able to actually chew food on Christmas. Whee!


Ailleann - Dec 05, 2006 10:14:04 am PST #4409 of 10004
vanguard of the socialist Hollywood liberal homosexualist agenda

Wow, my complaints have totally fizzled, because I am SO not that hardcore. I will think of you when I need strength, Laura!