You've got my support. Just think of me as...as your... You know, I'm searching for 'supportive things' and I'm coming up all bras.

Xander ,'Empty Places'


Spike's Bitches 33: Weeping, crawling, blaming everybody else  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Fred Pete - Nov 07, 2006 10:20:03 am PST #388 of 10004
Ann, that's a ferret.

That said, we're not giving up cheeseburgers.

I've had some success with the "portion control" theory. As in, getting a single cheeseburger instead of a double.

I'm not skinny, but I think I'm a little less overweight.


Cashmere - Nov 07, 2006 10:22:12 am PST #389 of 10004
Now tagless for your comfort.

I've had some success with the "portion control" theory. As in, getting a single cheeseburger instead of a double.

I think the biggest problem is that DH is fond of the "black & blue" burger. Black angus, blue cheese. With bacon.

Now I'm hungry.


beth b - Nov 07, 2006 10:22:16 am PST #390 of 10004
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

Taxing something because it is a health burden seems wrong. There are places to pay for it- such as insurance costs. But it is hard to put in a box A causes B. let's take my favorite disease. Diabetes. If you are not geneticly inclined, you will only get it if your pancreas is destroyed or damaged. So obese does not = diabetes. Then there is me - my weigh crept up. I decided to do something about it. Lost 30 lbs. Slowly , carfully, over a year in time. 6 months after hitting my low weight -that's when diabetes showed up. Loseing weight, not a promise of good health.

Possibly rewards for good health are better. Ihave a friend who lost weight because of a life insurance thign - it was the final motivation fo r her. She stuck to it, did really well and is proud of herself


Aims - Nov 07, 2006 10:27:11 am PST #391 of 10004
Shit's all sorts of different now.

Because you can choose to go outside to smoke, but no one else around you at a restaurant can choose not to smoke your cigarette if you're smoking near them. I haven't noticed less people in restaurants since the law was passed.

In restaurants and bars, I don't have a problem with not being able to smoke. I can go outside. It's not abig deal to me. At least outside I can hang with smokers. Automatic comrades!

My main problem is the law. My smoking is not a healthful thing to do, but there are also other unhealthy things that so many people do, that it gets tiring being the only group that is taxed and villified as much as smokers are.


beth b - Nov 07, 2006 10:27:28 am PST #392 of 10004
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

3 things help me.

1) portion control - which I do pretty well with most of the time

2) recognizing my own eating habits. - as in I like to eat all the time - so I eat a resonable breakfast and dinner,but I snack a lot from 10 - 4

3) rare. some foods just have to be rare. as in not often. And that's the hardest one.


Aims - Nov 07, 2006 10:29:31 am PST #393 of 10004
Shit's all sorts of different now.

Which I think we've established as a poor standard by bullshit consensus.

Hells yeah. Unfortunately, BC/BS does not yet recognize the word of the Buffistas as being the One True Way.

Effers.


lcat - Nov 07, 2006 10:32:52 am PST #394 of 10004
I have loved the stars too fondly to be fearful of the night.

Even though I live in a place that doesn't have much of anything except bond issues on the ballot, these policy discussions are cool to read and helps remind me that apathy is not necessarily the default political position. I need help on a Buffy quote, though, and decided you guys would be the best resource. The quote I'm thinking of is in the episode where Ethan transforms Giles into a demon like creature; Buffy is ready to kill him but then stops and explains that she knew it was Giles because the look in his eyes was a combination of.... love and disappointment?... affection and resignation?. Anyway, can anyone point me in the direction of that quote? I am going through a rough spot with my very bright, very verbal and very willful teen-age son and I'd like to adopt it as my personal mantra for a bit.


Jessica - Nov 07, 2006 10:38:40 am PST #395 of 10004
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

IMO, smoking bans are for the benefit of the staff, not the nonsmoking customers.


Aims - Nov 07, 2006 10:39:09 am PST #396 of 10004
Shit's all sorts of different now.

lcat, here's the quote:

Giles: How did you know it was me?
Buffy: Only you can look that annoyed with me, Giles.


Cashmere - Nov 07, 2006 10:42:56 am PST #397 of 10004
Now tagless for your comfort.

My smoking is not a healthful thing to do, but there are also other unhealthy things that so many people do, that it gets tiring being the only group that is taxed and villified as much as smokers are.

You know I think you're sexy, anyway, right Smokey McBlacklung?