I can't quite fathom anyone wanting to date me.

So very much this. I can usually understand people wanting to be my friend and hang out. Usually. Most of the time. But, date me? Ummm. no.

I vote cave.

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Only when they're trashed. It's a thing.

Ppppbbbbbllllllltttttt!

because you're MADE OF AWESOME!

I am tattooing this on my ass. Or my cleavage. Actually, it seems more cleavage-appropriate.

IOnotmeN, how many of us are represented by this picture?

::snerk::

I want more coffee now.

They are saying that frozen water will fall from the sky. Hold me!

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I am tattooing this on my ass. Or my cleavage. Actually, it seems more cleavage-appropriate.

Everyone who thinks that Cass's ass and cleavage are equally worth of a "made of awesome" tattoo, raise your hand.

t raises hand, waves it around wildly

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I want more coffee now.

me too. and i'm in that dilemma where it's 5:30, and I'll leave in 45 minutes or so, so is it really worth it? The answer is always yes, but I feel guilty. and then I compromise by having half a cup.

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t tacklehugs Vortex

I see you soon! YAY!

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I can't quite fathom anyone wanting to date me.

At least this I'm clear on. I'm such a bundle of chronic pain, et al. that I know I had better be undateable.

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Like if a man friend gets a girlfriend, I expect to be dropped like a hot potato, but it hurts my feelings when a female friend does it.

Heh. Yes, this. But then, I'm the type that refuses to drop close friends for a guy. And I tend to expect the same from my female friends. That doesn't mean that I get the same in return... I just tend to expect it.

In fact, most of them seem safer as friends because either I'm not interested in them or they're not interested in me. Or because they're unavailable since they're spoken for. Does that make any sense at all?

YES! I'm the same way with my married (or seriously spoken for) male friends. Especially with co-workers. I feel safer with them because nine times out of ten, if someone makes a smart-ass comment, my response is going to be smart-ass *and* flirty. I don't think before I talk in those types of situations and the single boys get the wrong idea sometimes. (The marrieds would find it difficult to get the wrong idea since I'm quite vocal about my dislike of cheaters.)

Everyone who thinks that Cass's ass and cleavage are equally worth of a "made of awesome" tattoo, raise your hand.

t raises hand, waves with Kristin

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I tried the half cup thing. I still want coffee. Guess I will be making more...

Everyone who thinks that Cass's ass and cleavage are equally worth of a "made of awesome" tattoo, raise your hand.

In a Buffistaverse with JZ and Erin? I simply have a serviceable ass. It's a nice enough ass, but not particularly praiseworthy. The tat should be cleavaged.

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I am not serious about much, but I feel seriously blessed by my friends, and since I'm not all that spiritual, that's a pretty strong statement. My strongest friends are women -- I have 5 friends who I have known since college, about 10-13 years, and we are still friends. Like, hang out all the time, motherhood was just another life phase, I would take you to the psych ward and still love you friends. I have also many guy friends from that time period, who are either married to my friends, or who have married women who have become true friends.

I have 8 women who I know would rush into a burning building to save me, and vice versa. The guys? 1 would -- he's the closest thing I have to a brother. The others would try, but it's not as close as the women.

I am amazingly lucky. And yeah, I do know how lucky I am, and how rare it is, and I am very, very thankful for them.

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I think that's why I don't have a problem with not having a significant other -- I have AMAZING friends. They fulfill all of my emotional needs and the occasional hook up fulfills my physical needs. I can even get the occasional cuddle when needed.

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